Beautiful Kisses Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Why is it that one min a guy will be texting you for days straight wanting to talk and show you all of this attention and then when you reciprocate the attention. Responding to his text, texting him first every now and then, they back off and seem unintrested I.e taking a hours or days to reply to your messages , having short responses. Then when I start to back off him again, here he goes blowing up my phone. Is it a game to him? Its so stupid to me. I appreciate all advice!
travelbug1996 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 If you google your title you will see why you should RUN and not walk away from these losers. Ugh they are the worst with the silliness and immaturity. They think being unavailable will make you want them more. It does work for women with low esteem. Set a standard and stick to it. Block this creep. He's just passing time. 1
writergal Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 (edited) *hands the OP some tennis shoes* Yes, I agree with travelbug1996 100%. Run as fast as you can from this guy. He will only make you miserable. Think of it this way: the payoff for men who string you along is that they get a power trip from seeing you suffer. It's an ego boost for them. Doesn't matter how much you protest or complain, they will just continue their cat and mouse game because they thrive off the game-playing. Why? Because they are immature, have low self esteem (I think), and don't respect women on some level. This just happened to me. I finally had to block a guy who kept sending me sexually aggressive emails, where he promised to tell me every sick, sexual thought he had about me, because he didn't want to disrespect me. Um, really? These kind of men prey on women they view as weak and emotionally vulnerable. The best tactic you can do as a woman is to block, delete, and ignore them. If you give them any attention at all, that's like throwing gasoline on a fire. They thrive off your negative attention and use it to try to manipulate you into thinking they like you. Don't fall for it. See hot and cold for what it is: an immature, abusive, game played by a very weak-minded man. Edited October 14, 2014 by writergal 1
Redhead14 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Next time he comes on hot, you throw a bucket of cold water on him. 1
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