so i went 10 days no contact and tried to text and get ignored

[Chuck636333]

OK so I just want to know how my ex can flip a switch and be over me in a day or not care about me...so I try to text her and tell her how I feel and I get no response

 

She has done this in the past when she left but this is ridiculous...7 years and best friends and get stabbed in the freakin back

[tikay00]

OK so I just want to know how my ex can flip a switch and be over me in a day or not care about me...so I try to text her and tell her how I feel and I get no response

 

She has done this in the past when she left but this is ridiculous...7 years and best friends and get stabbed in the freakin back

 

She's probably STILL going NC. You can't blame her. I wish to God my ex could have the will power to not text me after just a few days. It's so hard when the ex calls or texts out of the blue. I completely understand your position, and that you want to get back with her, but you have to respect that she's still healing, and really trying to move on.

[lauri]

Dude, texting her won't do anything.

 

You need to fall off the face of the earth and disappear. By being around won't change anything and all you are doing is setting yourself up to be hurt.

 

The relationship is over and you need realize this. Yes, 7 years is a long time but you can't change the way she feels. Unfortunately, the only option is sticking to NC and never speaking to her until you are 100% over this.

[Chuck636333]

Ya she ignored me last time too when she "wanted to move on then drug me back in begging and now again and I should just take it again and suffer out of respect....sounds reasonable...where's my respect? For 7 years of kissing someone's ass where's my respect?

[Chuck636333]

Do you know how many times I've heard the relationship is over??? Its hard to take someone seriously when they leave and come back multiple times

[tikay00]

Do you know how many times I've heard the relationship is over??? Its hard to take someone seriously when they leave and come back multiple times

 

Ya she ignored me last time too when she "wanted to move on then drug me back in begging and now again and I should just take it again and suffer out of respect....sounds reasonable...where's my respect? For 7 years of kissing someone's ass where's my respect?

 

If she's done this in the past, then you have to end the cycle. Get some REAL NC time in, and then see what happens.

[lauri]

Do you know how many times I've heard the relationship is over??? Its hard to take someone seriously when they leave and come back multiple times

 

Chuck I'm not going to say this to be mean but...whos fault is it that she continues to leave you and come back? Its up to you to decide if you want to put up with her BS. You need go stand up to her and show her that breaking up with you isn't a joke or a game that she can make you suffer.

 

Its up to you in the end to change this. Kissing her ass and always being there for her doesn't make her love you. The only respect you will get from her is the respect you command. She clearly isn't worth your time if she is putting you through so much BS.

 

If she is playing games with you to teach you a lesson then she isn't worth your time man. Next time you hear from her politely ask her to not contact you anymore.

[Chuck636333]

In the past she's had reason to leave. This time she was asking for a ring on Friday and left after an argument Sunday. I always give her the benefit of the doubt when she says she made a mistake and comes back.I wanted it to work I tried to make it work now myself and more importantly my 10 year old which looked at her as a mom get to suffer...its disgusting...I would never do this to someone

[Seraque]

Stop giving her the power. Stop contacting her and hoping to hear from her. It's over and even if she tries to come back she isn't good for you. Take a stance and it'll be easier hopefully.