Why doesn't this guy talk to me anymore after we met in person?

[collegestudent1]

I talked to this guy on tinder and we met in person a few days later. After we met in person, he stopped talking to me and ignored all my texts. What does this mean?

[LoneIsland]

Did you turn him off bad ? If he's not responding then he's not interested.

 

I once ignored a woman after she stated she wouldn't do sex before marriage. She gave me no more reason to respond to her.

[Mister Zen]

I've done this.

 

When he saw you in person he wasn't attracted to you.

[Mrin]

Because he wasn't attracted to you. No biggie. Next!

[Dork Vader]

I have done this for numerous reasons.

 

 

1. I do not find them attractive (at all).

2. They come on WAY to strong and way to fast. I will let that slide if I'm feeling a lot of chemistry but that is really rare.

3. They annoy me in real life. I talked to one woman on the phone for 3 months. She was a completely different person in real life. It was not so much her personality but her actions.

 

 

The guy is simply no longer interested. If he was you would know and he surely would not be ignoring you. The only possible reason he would be ignoring you is if he lost his phone or was in a bad car crash and in the hospital. But this would be insanely rare (I've never had it happen once). If I do lose my phone I find a way to contact them. Even if I have no way to contact them I request a copy of my phone records and make a phone call.

[Ruby Slippers]

It means he's not interested for whatever reason, and he has no manners. The least you can do if you're not feeling it after a first date is text back something like, "I had a good time, but I didn't feel a romantic connection. Good luck in your search."

[writergal]

It means he's not interested, but don't take it personally, OP.

 

Online dating is a numbers game and a process of elimination. Keep trying. Eventually you'll meet a guy where the feeling's mutual.