Johnnsmith Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 There is this girl i have been in love with for nearly 4 years amd i cant stop thinking about her every second of everyday i know she is the one. I dont find any other girl attractive i only have eyes for her and would do anything for her. We are very close we text each other every single day and can talk for hours and whenever we do she makes me so happy and i think she does like me But she has a boyfriend who she has been with a year and they always argue they never go a week without arguing but they always somehow make up. He treats her like **** and it breaks my heart seeing her sad as she deserves much better. I can never get to sleep as i am always thinking about her and become depressed as she has a boyfriend and i just want to look after her and let her show her i love her. She knows i like her but not that i love her this much and i just dont know what to do as i feel i will never get over this girl as she is truly the one for me.
lovingone Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 There is this girl i have been in love with for nearly 4 years amd i cant stop thinking about her every second of everyday i know she is the one. I dont find any other girl attractive i only have eyes for her and would do anything for her. We are very close we text each other every single day and can talk for hours and whenever we do she makes me so happy and i think she does like me But she has a boyfriend who she has been with a year and they always argue they never go a week without arguing but they always somehow make up. He treats her like **** and it breaks my heart seeing her sad as she deserves much better. I can never get to sleep as i am always thinking about her and become depressed as she has a boyfriend and i just want to look after her and let her show her i love her. She knows i like her but not that i love her this much and i just dont know what to do as i feel i will never get over this girl as she is truly the one for me. Of course you won't get over her, all your energy is wasted on her instead of finding someone else. If you told me you were in love with a statue, it would make about as much sense. In either situation you are wasting feelings that can't be returned. You are better off finding someone who will romantically love you back. 1
Georgia2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 You really have three options. 1. Take your chances and tell her how you feel 2. Go no contact since talking to her is making your feelings more intense for her. 3. Get over her and after being no contact for a while try finding someone else. She is not The One if you can't have her. If she was the one you and her would be together plain and simple.
Assasda Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Seems like we have a white knight here who wants a girl to rescue. When the girl figures out that you love her and you dont even know her, she's going to be totally freaked out. The fact is, if she liked you enough, she'd be with you. So.... She doesnt. Move on
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 You don't love her. You are infatuated with her. Three years into your friendship with her, she chose to go out with another man. At best you are friendzoned. I don't think you have chance with her. You need to walk away & put some distance in your friendship. Having a front row seat to her love life is not good for you.
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