JackJackxD Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 What are the signs that your Ex would never reconsider you again? Here is my situation - My Ex broke up with me on good terms - Wanted to remain friends - Said she is too disappointed in me to the point that she lost feelings for me - Tells me to try to move on - When I asked "One day if I feel like I've become a better person, and felt the urge to ask you out again, would you be angry at me?", she just ignored the question. So what do you think? Am I in the "Once an Ex always an Ex" zone?
Xemyd Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 What are the signs that your Ex would never reconsider you again? Here is my situation - My Ex broke up with me on good terms - Wanted to remain friends - Said she is too disappointed in me to the point that she lost feelings for me - Tells me to try to move on - When I asked "One day if I feel like I've become a better person, and felt the urge to ask you out again, would you be angry at me?", she just ignored the question. So what do you think? Am I in the "Once an Ex always an Ex" zone? No one can answer this. There is absolutely no certainty when it comes to relationships and ex-relationships.
CaliBabe Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Agreed with the above poster. We have all read stories on here of dumpees begging and pleading and the ex coming back and also the opposite, where the dumpee left without the begging and pleading and the ex still came back. Then there are those times where the exes never come back and just move on with their lives. This is your journey now. Put the focus on you and not on the ex. Trust the timing of your life. 2
strong-hearted Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 yeah I agree as well, there's no way of knowing if the ex's will ever come back, all you can do is just get on with your life and do the best you can to move on. Only time will tell if they come back, if they do u probably won't feel the same way about em but if they don't it won't matter because you'll have your life back on track and figured out by then so either way u will be fine
evanescentworld Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 What are the signs that your Ex would never reconsider you again? Here is my situation - My Ex broke up with me on good terms - Wanted to remain friends - Said she is too disappointed in me to the point that she lost feelings for me - Tells me to try to move on - When I asked "One day if I feel like I've become a better person, and felt the urge to ask you out again, would you be angry at me?", she just ignored the question. So what do you think? Am I in the "Once an Ex always an Ex" zone? In this case? Yes, I believe you are. To my mind, in my opinion, you should take the above three factors as definite signs that she is not going to do this with you, a second time. If she's telling you to move on - believe she means it.
d0nnivain Posted October 15, 2014 Posted October 15, 2014 She is trying to be gracious & soften the blow. She's cruel for being kind because she is giving you false hope. Don't fault her for being nice but don't expect that you are going to be able to magically change & win her back. 1
loversquarrel Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 Why would you want someone who feels disappointed in you? Screw her, find someone who will love you for who you are, in the good times as well as the bad. 2
KatZee Posted October 16, 2014 Posted October 16, 2014 (edited) Signs you will never be reconsidered; -she wants to be your friend and has no issues treating you as such now. -tells you to move on. -ignores your question about any possible future reconciliation. You're being super beta if you remain her friend and it's not attractive. It also allows you to be her emotional crutch while she's free to find new guys to be with. It dramatically lowers any possible romantic chance you will have again. As a woman, I would NEVER tell a man I was into, even a little bit, to move on. That would be like cutting off my nose to spite my own face! Edited October 16, 2014 by KatZee
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