genericname132 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I met her a few weeks back at a big social gathering type event where we hit it off pretty well. A few dates since and each date, at least to me, went off superbly. Great conversation, laughs, and seamlessly learning more about each other; always ends it talking about how great a time she had, can't wait to meet again etc. One thing that has been really off for me though, is that she seems to have no interest in 'daily' communication. All my previous relationships, no matter how short/serious, at least had some level of chatter where we would at least talk about our daily lives or talked about what we would do in the future for dates. I'm not talking obsessively checking the phone every few minutes but at least 2 or 3 texts. Even for time-sensitive material (events set on a schedule ie concerts) she takes hours to respond to. No, I haven't talked to her about it because it seems like such a common sense thing today. She's surrounded by technology near daily because of her job so I can understand a level of needing to get away from it and just wanting to do face-to-face but I'm not sure this can work out longterm for me. Thoughts?
GemmaUK Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Some people are into texting, some aren't. Does she have her head stuck in her phone texting when you go on dates or is it left in her bag only to be looked at if she needs to call a taxi or contact someone you are meeting up with?
Assasda Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Sounds like this chick is the bomb. Change your tight panties to some looser fitting ones and maybe you'll feel better OP
GemmaUK Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I'd kill to date someone like that. So would I!!
WhatIsLove2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 You say its not daily...then how often? Are you saying you text her and she doesn't text back?
smackie9 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 You have only been out on two dates, so it is too early to bring up your expectation of communication on a daily basis. Two great dates does not make exclusivity. This is not a relationship as of yet. I would be a little more patient. Have you broached the subject about asking if she is dating other people? People tend to make the mistake of assuming while they are just an option.
Tayken Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Are you saying you text her and she doesn't text back? If this is indeed the problem, then the OP has a valid point. I mean who wants to end up with someone that doesn't value verbal or written communication? I know I don't and people know I have no issues letting them know that
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