frozengirl Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I know a lot of you if not all of you have heard the line "It's not me, it's you" Or "It's not you, it's me" But what do these lines mean or refer too? What have been your experiences with them?
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I know a lot of you if not all of you have heard the line "It's not me, it's you" Or "It's not you, it's me" But what do these lines mean or refer too? What have been your experiences with them? To me it means the other is not willing to accept it is mutual. Meaning the relationship never was 50/50. Either they allowed it to be uneven by ignoring issues or by having expectations that were never met. Not matter which side they bring up, all it is showing is the other is pointing the finger at themselves, from missed judgement of his or her moment to allow for understandings.
Mrin Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 They mean I dont like/love you like you like/love me. It means they're just not into you. It isn't something specific about you but just that you're not their type. It sucks to hear but it is also kinda reaffirming that you werent the match you though you were.
amkxoxo Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. And yes, I hate this effect. I had it with the guy I mentioned to you in your other thread. The its not you, its me. It still bothers me until this day. The guy told me that I did everything right and I was perfect, it was him not being ready. Guys suck this way. I spent over a year questioning myself, but I did do everything right to be with him and make him apart of my life. It was him. I put more effort and he gave me got and cold effort. Don't doubt yourself like I did. I regret it. Its so hard to get over someone who didn't give you what you gave to them. And sometimes answer are limited leaving you dazed and confused. Remember this important key, actions speak louder than words. He is giving you words but are his actions supporting that. He says he likes you and would like to move further, but does he make it happen. No excuses can bar him from doing this. I wish you luck and I hope you don't get hurt by this.
Author frozengirl Posted October 13, 2014 Author Posted October 13, 2014 I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. And yes, I hate this effect. I had it with the guy I mentioned to you in your other thread. The its not you, its me. It still bothers me until this day. The guy told me that I did everything right and I was perfect, it was him not being ready. Guys suck this way. I spent over a year questioning myself, but I did do everything right to be with him and make him apart of my life. It was him. I put more effort and he gave me got and cold effort. Don't doubt yourself like I did. I regret it. Its so hard to get over someone who didn't give you what you gave to them. And sometimes answer are limited leaving you dazed and confused. Remember this important key, actions speak louder than words. He is giving you words but are his actions supporting that. He says he likes you and would like to move further, but does he make it happen. No excuses can bar him from doing this. I wish you luck and I hope you don't get hurt by this. Well the guy I am seeing did not tell me this and I did not tell him this but I have heard this a lot in movies and tv shows so.
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