KnightsDream Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 So I've been NC with my ex gf for a week tonight. Broken up for about 3 weeks now. I'm having a really tough time tonight, after having a conversation with a friend. He expects her to contact me, and give me another chance. This brought me right back to square one, I feel like that was the worst thing for me to hear tonight. We were together for 2.5 years, and were each others first love. She's 3 hours away in college. Her mom told me not to write the relationship off, and my ex still has our pictures featured prominently on her social media. But, it's been a week of not talking. I know that there are other guys interested in her, but I can't do anything about that. I want to call her, I am literally fighting myself right now. I figured I'd post here instead.
JDPT Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Be strong and fight the urge to contact her. Keep in mind that absolutely nothing good will come out of this if you do decide to reach out to old hurt. Do yourself a favor and save yourself future grief. I understand you may not be in the right state of mind dealing with this pain but make it your business to get trough tonight and tomorrow will be another day.
Stsm5934 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Sometimes people are just trying to help and it unintentionally does the opposite. It's hard when people other than your ex tell you these things about they have hope for the relationship because it's hard for you to not want to latch onto that hope. Ultimately, holding onto hope really just makes you take a step back into that phase where your not accepting the end of the relationship. I'm sorry your hurting tonight and know that many, many, many people have felt very similar feelings and after sometime, those feelings will lessen. It will be ok, but it doesn't have to feel that way right now.
Justaguy30 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I am sorry you are in so much pain tonight. I have been there many times and I will tell you the same thing everyone else is telling you. Don't contact her, if she were going to come back it would be because you didn't contact her. The fact is would you want someone back at this moment in time doesn't even want to talk to you? My suggestion is to just chill because women want someone that doesn't react badly in situations and anything you do is just going to make you look bad at this moment anyway. Continue with no contact and stay strong. If you feel like talking to her post in the post her instead of contacting your ex forum here. It has helped me a lot!!!
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