cookiemonster26 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 So I met a guy online and went on one date, it went really well and we have been texting a lot afterwards (everyday). He asked me to hang out on the weekend two weeks after, but wasn't sure which day (Saturday or Sunday). He never ended up confirming with me, so I asked him if we were still meeting this weekend and he totally ignored my question and changed the topic. I decided to just ignore him afterwards, and now he keep texting me asking how I am etch. I'm not sure if I should continue to keep texting him as to me it just seems like he stringing me along. What do you guys think? Also there was another guy I went on two dates with, and both went really well. But he always takes 1-2 days to reply to my texts and always has some sort of reason for replying slowly (sick, busy, this and that). I also feel like this guy is stringing me along as well, or maybe not? What do you guys think? Is there any way I can ask them without sounding rude so I don't waste my time? Or is that even worth it in this case.
CarrieT Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 I would move on from both guys and find someone who is more proactive in wanting to date you. 2
writergal Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Neither of these guys sound like they are that interested in you, based on the way they've left you hanging for dates and meanwhile string you along with texts. Mixed-messages galore. No, don't bother asking either of them to explain their behavior. If you do, they'll just have a convenient excuse or deflect any guilt they may feel for being heels, back on to you as though it's your fault which we know isn't the case. I'd forget about these two duds and go back to the online dating drawing board, so to speak, and keep at it until you find a guy who will make dating you a priority, not an option. 1
LostOnes05 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Yea, move on from them. It usually only takes me 15-20 minutes to respond to a text. If I take a day or more to respond, either that person pissed me off and I need to cool down before replying or I was legitimately busy and forgot. If a guy doesn't bother to make you feel special to him, why bother right? The same should go for women as well. No need to play games in dating.
WhatIsLove2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 If you can't tell if they are interested, then they probably are not. 2
BluEyeL Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 Don't waste your time. Stop replying to their messages and put your energy in finding someone else. It's a numbers' game, don't get stuck with people who are wishy washy. 1
Beautiful Kisses Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 The first one is def stringing you along. Take it from someone who just recently dropped a guy for doing the same exact thing to me. Its all a game to them smh. Just try to move on. The second guy is also not that interested he's blowing you off with bs excuses. Seems to me like now in days these guys are just too lazy to put in any effort to impress us women.
travelbug1996 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 I would block both of their numbers. These guys are not interested and not worth the breath it would take to ask them anything. Onwards and Upwards!!:bunny:
Assasda Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 The first guy is a definate goof. Put him on the block list for the "How are you's" alone. The second guy I think you can get somewhere with. If youre talking about superficial stuff, he may not thing its very urgent. Texting itself can be rough. Soo, does he just have bad texting etiquette? -- Tell him your time is valuable to you next time
Author cookiemonster26 Posted October 14, 2014 Author Posted October 14, 2014 The first one I already ditched. The second one well some days he will reply in a few days but most days he takes 1-2 days to reply, especially when it comes to confirming plans, he will wait like a few hours on the day of the meet to confirm a time and place, and won't text in between. He texted on Sunday but I ignored it and no follow up text to see if I'm still alive SL its safe to say he's not interested
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