Giha Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 Hey all, A little background: So this is a girl I've known since kindergarten. Let's call her N. We've been in the same class in elementary school and basically known each other our whole lives though we were never really in touch A few days ago I went out with friends, and a friend's girlfriend invited her friends, obviously including N So now for some reason I feel this urge to approach her. I've always known she is exactly my type but I never really had a chance to talk to her for more than 5 minutes until now. Problem is I don't know how to approach her. N is a very shy, quiet girl. I texted her last night, I asked her about that family trip she's been on and we texted back and forth for a few minutes until she went to bed, and now I don't know how to start up a conversation. I tried asking my friend's girlfriend what to do but nothing she said was really helpful. Any tips on how to go about that? Keep in mind she's not a girl I can just hit on. Side note: she's had a kiddy-crush on me all through elementary school if that helps at all. Can't see how but maybe you'll see something I don't. Thanks!
Dallers Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 It really is not that difficult. You say she is a shy, quiet girl but that is because you don't know her in that way girls know what they want they just do not intend to let you find out. That is your job. Flirt, make physical contact, ask her if she fancies going out with you sometime on a date. Make that very clear. Job done. 1
Author Giha Posted October 12, 2014 Author Posted October 12, 2014 It really is not that difficult. You say she is a shy, quiet girl but that is because you don't know her in that way girls know what they want they just do not intend to let you find out. That is your job. Flirt, make physical contact, ask her if she fancies going out with you sometime on a date. Make that very clear. Job done. I'd do that but I never get to see her on a regular basis. It has to be done via text or wait until I see her again and I don't know when that's going to be.
Dallers Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 Text her and arrange a meeting. Keep it casual a coffee or a drink and ask her out. When you are out then make it clear your intentions and see if she reciprocates. You need to make the move as she wont.
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