Stripesx Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 My ex and I have been together for year and we were living together, everything was perfect until I told her that I am going to university. She didn't took it well and said to me that we would have to break up without even discussing a long distance relationship. I have now moved out after staying 1 week in the same house with her, we have met a few times since then and talked and had sex. I was trying to convince her to stay with me for a last time which didn't work out, I then wanted some closure, since she has been on a bender for 3 days which i have never seen her doing it before. I asked if she had slept with someone else and she said she has slept with a mutual friend of mine after we had broken up. SHe cried her eyes out and regrets having broken up with me and wants me back now( yeah right bitch), Im broken into pieces because I love her and she wanted me to stay and study locally. I would never expected her to be doing this so soon, since we both have been loyal and trust has never been an issue. I then did most stupidest thing I could do because I felt so disrespected,I belted the dude and spat in her face. I know this disgraceful but it hurts so much. I dont want her ever back in my life but it feels like a part of me has died. I'm constantly just thinking about her and I also dreading going back over there to get my tv. I left my sofa because its way to big to take with me to uni. I wanted to donate it to charity which would be a bitch move right? since she has not got anything to sit on for her kids should i do it, or leave it so she has to think about me everytime she sits on lol.:evil:
Nicholas123 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Hey Stripesx, I think you have to see this from a balance perspective. First of all, what she did was wrong by sleeping with someone else (in my book, there is noway back, if anyone did that to me). But to be honest you had the opportunity then to be the bigger man and walk away. I think you know yourself that spitting in her face in not the right thing to do. As for the sofa, is it really that important?, that's your call but personally, I think you should be the bigger man, raise above it all, have a clean break and go and have a great time at uni. I hope this helps. Nick. 1
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