lukemortt Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 I have been dating this girl, AMy for three months. She is graduating from college in January. When we started dating she said she didn't want to get into anything serious right away because she wasn't sure what wil happen after she graduates school. I agreed and said I wasnt looking for anything serious right now because I just got out of a relationship Now , no we are not f*** buddies. We havent even done that. Fooled around yes but nothing else. We are not seeing other people either. She really does like me and has told me and says Im sweet and a great guy She lives 90 mins away so we dont see each other much. We text and skype to make up for it. Over the past month we have started to see each other alot more. It seems shes getting more closer to me but then will pull away a bit. The other night she said "this whole seeing each other weekly thing is a littleto much" i said "how"and she said "i think its cuz we text all the time, i dont know im weird" she has me a bit confused..lol i do like her i really do but i dont know what i should do... anyone? just keep taking it slow
Elle1975 Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 She probably feels that you want more, and she simply doesn't. Just too immature still to put it into words. Why not find someone who genuinely wants to be with you and will enjoy your texts? 3
Author lukemortt Posted October 11, 2014 Author Posted October 11, 2014 She probably feels that you want more, and she simply doesn't. Just too immature still to put it into words. Why not find someone who genuinely wants to be with you and will enjoy your texts? she does like me and likes our texting
d0nnivain Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 She doesn't know what is in store for her upon graduation. She doesn't want to be tied down if it's something "better" than what she has. 2
Author lukemortt Posted October 11, 2014 Author Posted October 11, 2014 She doesn't know what is in store for her upon graduation. She doesn't want to be tied down if it's something "better" than what she has. but she does like me?
ExpatInItaly Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 I have been dating this girl, AMy for three months. She is graduating from college in January. When we started dating she said she didn't want to get into anything serious right away because she wasn't sure what wil happen after she graduates school. I agreed and said I wasnt looking for anything serious right now because I just got out of a relationship Now , no we are not f*** buddies. We havent even done that. Fooled around yes but nothing else. We are not seeing other people either. She really does like me and has told me and says Im sweet and a great guy She lives 90 mins away so we dont see each other much. We text and skype to make up for it. Over the past month we have started to see each other alot more. It seems shes getting more closer to me but then will pull away a bit. The other night she said "this whole seeing each other weekly thing is a littleto much" i said "how"and she said "i think its cuz we text all the time, i dont know im weird" she has me a bit confused..lol i do like her i really do but i dont know what i should do... anyone? just keep taking it slow Seeing each other once a week is too much? She's trying to tell you she's not as into it as you are. No, I don't think she likes you the way you like her. Sorry, OP. I don't know how else to interpret that. 2
Assasda Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 Naa she doesnt like you man. TBH If a girl likes you, she doesnt call you "A sweet guy" or "A great guy" - Thats what you say to a friend. Also, her graduating has nothing to do with what she'll find in a mate I dont think she is romantically attracted to you as a man OP. T- This may be for many reasons. There is one thing I KNOW that you should do though. That is - See other women 1
smackie9 Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 I agree, she is giving you the shove off. You got friend zoned. 1
Elle1975 Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 she does like me and likes our texting I like cheese, doesn't mean I'd spend my life with it. I have dated guys I "Liked" but didn't love. I have dated men who after a few months told me "I like you, you're a nice girl, but.." You're falling for her, and she's not. Probably, the best way to turn that around is to back off a little. If that can be turned around at all, which I doubt at that point. 1
Author lukemortt Posted October 12, 2014 Author Posted October 12, 2014 Naa she doesnt like you man. TBH If a girl likes you, she doesnt call you "A sweet guy" or "A great guy" - Thats what you say to a friend. Also, her graduating has nothing to do with what she'll find in a mate I dont think she is romantically attracted to you as a man OP. T- This may be for many reasons. There is one thing I KNOW that you should do though. That is - See other women bul if she doesnt ike me why does she drive 90 mins to see me
Assasda Posted October 13, 2014 Posted October 13, 2014 bul if she doesnt ike me why does she drive 90 mins to see me I drive 1.5 hrs to see my best bud. I most certainly dont want a romantic relationship with him - DOnt you get it?
d0nnivain Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 She does like you but not enough. She thinks that there is something / somebody better out there for her.
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