jcm101 Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 The previous night was terrible as we traveled 45 mins with friends to go to bars in a cab and the bar would not let her in. She was stumbling and falling everywhere and me and her ended up taking a cab by ourselves back. She's usually never this bad falling and stuff, but lots of times when she drinks she gets mad at me for no apparent reason and I can barely have a normal convo with her out. She woke up in middle of night crying saying she's sorry and I said we'll talk in the a.m. I told her she completely embarrassed me and told her about always yelling at me, etc. She said sorry and it won't happen again. Anyone have experience with this?
NJ123 Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 (edited) I've always thought girls who like to drink a lot are bad news. I hate to say it, but it's likely going to keep happening if she's into the partying lifestyle. Edit: I know this first hand due to my brother always saying he was going to stop drinking than he would continue to anyways even after bad things kept happening. I'm guessing most of your girlfriends' friends are into partying a lot so she thinks she has to as well. I'll be surprised if I'm wrong on that assumption. Edited October 11, 2014 by NJ123
d0nnivain Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 Get her to slow down & don't encourage her to drink or do shots. Make sure she eats something substantial before you go out. Teach her to drink one pint or bottle (16 oz) of water between each drink.
Gloria25 Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 IMO, dating is to figure out if that person has what you are looking for. They aren't to be taken on as "fixer-up" projects and/or rescued. In other words, if they have issues and on their own will not do anything about them, time to decide whether or not you want to be with them. If you "do" decide to leave her and are still feeling like she needs to be rescued and/or needs "help" give her the tel or a referral to a counselor....Seriously. Let her know that you love and/or care for her and because of that, you want her to seek treatment for her well-being and you are not in the capacity to do that for her.
shinealight Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 There is noubt wrong in a person wanting to go out and have a outgoing lifestyle. People are different, some prefer to stay in watch tv and stay in bed, whilst some like to go out meet new people and dance. But for that person to go out just to get hammerd and fall to the floor then no.
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