LordVader Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 (edited) I can happily make eye contact with lots of the girls I hit on, and the girl I have a crush on. But most the time and with some beers, its like I'm listening to a movie when talking to her...........I hear her, but don't look at her, same with lots of girls I hit on. I'm OFF IN MY HEAD as they call it.......how do I fix that Girls know that means I'm not used to meeting, knowing, hitting on, making friends with girls, or of course dating them and more What do girls here think when they meet guys that most the time make NO eye-contact, but once and a while make full in love eye contact when talking to them ?????????????? Edited October 11, 2014 by LordVader
spiderowl Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 He could have mild autism and not able to bear eye contact or he could have drunk too much and is absorbed in his beer. If it's the beer, he needs to cut down a bit so he can behave consistently.
todreaminblue Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 eye contact is really important...i often feel if a guy doesn't make eye contact i am not worth looking at.......i will make the effort to try and get guys out fo their shell...make them feel comfortable...i usually do this by saying goofy stuff seems to work most of the time........but it is effort and i need to see that reciprocated to continue conversations...i enjoy stimulating conversation and i can keep it going i need to see into the eyes of the person i am talking to help me do that...i have asked a guy to remove his sunnies if he wanted to keep talking to me....and he did and made the effort to look at me when speaking so i could see that..i do read cues...why do you feel you cant look at some girls what is it?...what are you trying to disguise.......deb
Assasda Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 If you cant maintain eye contact in certain instances, it seems like you lack confidence. If you find a girl looking at you, look at her and maintain eyecontact until she looks away. After that, she'll be putty to you. Especially if they try to challenge you in this staring contest
smackie9 Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 What do girls here think when they meet guys that most the time make NO eye-contact, but once and a while make full in love eye contact when talking to them ?????????????? Sorry this would look creepy to me. If you are not having much success and this is what you have been doing, this is why things aren't working. Work on your confidence.
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