Ashley S Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 Hi! Sorry I post a lot, but this is just another curious question. Every time I am distancing myself from a guy, I notice he'll show up randomly. It's every time I am doing good without him, and BAM! He just shows up out of nowhere on my door step. I have been doing good with this one guy, I know he's no good for me so I cut him out, but he randomly showed up to my door, and his pathetic excuse was "Do you have any old cell phones I can buy? I need to buy a phone" Then he proceeded in asking me what I was doing that day, and I told him I am busy, so then we talked for a little bit, then he left. But it seems that everytime I am trying to distance myself from the guy and I am doing good, he'll show up too soon and mess everything up. Do guys sense or can tell when the girl is trying to ditch them? Or is it weird coincidence? It seems to be perfect timing, all the time!
Dallers Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 It depends. It comes with experience. I know the signs now and never let it get to that point. I normally bail out way before it does and even when I rarely miss the sign I just go quiet and they end up coming back. It sounds as though you are enjoyed by the guys you date and they are pretty weak, they sense you trying to pull away and think that by chasing after you that you will want them more. The biggest problem is guys not knowing what to do, most go to pieces and act like a dog humping your leg dribbling everywhere. Probably why you are trying to distance yourself in the first place 1
Author Ashley S Posted October 11, 2014 Author Posted October 11, 2014 It depends. It comes with experience. I know the signs now and never let it get to that point. I normally bail out way before it does and even when I rarely miss the sign I just go quiet and they end up coming back. It sounds as though you are enjoyed by the guys you date and they are pretty weak, they sense you trying to pull away and think that by chasing after you that you will want them more. The biggest problem is guys not knowing what to do, most go to pieces and act like a dog humping your leg dribbling everywhere. Probably why you are trying to distance yourself in the first place That's good that you know the signs! I don't enjoy the guys I date. It was just a curiosity question if guys knew weather or not if the girl is pulling away, or disliking them. Because I notice that every time I am pulled away from a guy, he'll just appear out of the blue, and then it just screws me up, but I know what to do, so it doesn't screw me up that bad, but hopefully you know what I mean? Lol. Well I dstance myself with these guys for multiple reasons, but the one you stated above ^ definitely is one of them haha. Thank you for sharing your opinion
d0nnivain Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 Most people have a 6th sense & can tell when something is wrong even if they don't know what. Hence, they try harder. especially if you know you do not want to continue a relationship, instead of distancing yourself, make a clean break & tell the person you are ending it. 1
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