Seeker12 Posted November 16, 2014 Posted November 16, 2014 (edited) Shes most likely looking for the emotional comfort she will get from you, do you really want to do that? On a positive note it shows that you did mean something to her and that not having you there has had some effect on her, she is missing out on something only you are able, at this moment in time, provide to her. But dont think itll lead to anywhere, most if not all the time it stays at the friends level. So its up to you man, if you want to just be friends, and your cool with it at that level then go for it. Me and my ex broke up because of other external issues, after a few months of a lot of heartache, pain etc. we have just started looking at the friends option, we know we cant be together long term, anytime soon anyway, so i know sooner or later il find someone, or she will, so we are discussing whether we should stay as friends, because we did help eachother alot, and do sincerely care for eachother, but will it go further then that? Theres a 99% chance it wont. And yes, this ex also did the whole messaging me at 4am in the morning etc. Edited November 16, 2014 by Seeker12
Author Kyle7 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Posted November 17, 2014 I text back saying thank you and that was it. Didn't respond to her hoping we can be friends soon because if I'm honest I don't know if ill ever want to be friends as I'll always have those feelings for her deep down.
Author Kyle7 Posted November 18, 2014 Author Posted November 18, 2014 I have come a long way right but I would still want to try again with her. After her texting on Sunday "I hope we can be friends, because it's weird not having you in my life at all" do you think I have any chance of possible reconciliation? How should I play it from here. Thanks.
Invictus01 Posted November 18, 2014 Posted November 18, 2014 I have come a long way right but I would still want to try again with her. After her texting on Sunday "I hope we can be friends, because it's weird not having you in my life at all" do you think I have any chance of possible reconciliation? How should I play it from here. Thanks. Dude, you really don't wanna do that, for your own sake. You will go nuts after a while. Think about one of your real female friends. Now think about her having sex with somebody dude. Who cares, right? Now think of your ex. Think of her having sex with somebody else. Some friend, huh?
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