mefisto Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 Hello. I have quite a few flaws in my appearances. But most them all i want to know about two of them. I have pale skin and bags below the eyes. I tried to change it, but i can't because my doctor has forbid me to go for solarium. I tried to do face massage and more healthy lifestyle but bags just don't disappear. It it really repulsive for girls or not really?
FitChick Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 Perhaps you aren't getting enough sleep or proper nutrition. How old are you? 2
M30USA Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 1) sleep 6-8 hours at routine time each night 2) get regular physical activity (it doesn't even have to be "exercise") 3) lay off the caffeine and refined sugars
Author mefisto Posted October 15, 2014 Author Posted October 15, 2014 >Perhaps you aren't getting enough sleep or proper nutrition. I get enough both. >How old are you? 22. >sleep 6-8 hours at routine time each night I compared night when i had 5 hours of sleep with night when i had 8 hours of sleep many times. The bags are the same. >get regular physical activity (it doesn't even have to be "exercise") I do exercises almost everyday. Bags are still the same >lay off the caffeine and refined sugars I don't drink caffeine for 6 months now. I eat one tiny piece of chocolate at a day and use honey instead of sugar in my tea. Bags are still the same. Also, i checked with many doctors, no one could help me find the reason for it. I look at the mirror and feel disgust. Girls tend to pick healthy males due unconscious desire to have more healthy offspring. How do i even compete with them with goddamn bags under my eyes?
Toodaloo Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 How do i even compete with them with goddamn bags under my eyes? You stop worrying about it. Concentrate on being healthy and doing the things you enjoy. For some girls your pale complexion will be enormously attractive so embrace your flaws. 3
Ruby Slippers Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 I think when we are young, we tend to be far too critical of self-perceived flaws in our appearance. I'm in my late 30s now and don't worry nearly as much about those things as I used to. Now that I've relaxed and learned to embrace and accentuate the positives of my appearance, men generally respond to me much more favorably, seem to see me as even sexier and more attractive than when I was 10 years younger. Confidence and being comfortable with yourself goes a very long way.
Allumere Posted October 20, 2014 Posted October 20, 2014 - Tanning is horrible for you and could kill you so your doctor is wise. Trust me, 25 years from now you will love the fact that you have not done sun!!! It really does more to age the face and skin then anything else (although smoking is close!) - Bags or bulging under eyes can be a) hereditary b) result of allergies or other medical condition and c) aging. - Although diet/sleep/nutrition may slightly improve these, if they are persistant they will not magically go away with those things. Addressing allergies can help some but that can be a very gradual process. - You need to consult a cosmetic surgeon. Without a picture I can only guess but given your age I would think they may recommend using a small amount of filler to address your problem. If bags are extreme they may recommend a bleph surgery in which fat is removed and/or redistributed. - I highly doubt anyone finds either thing repulsive and as is typical of our possible flaws, others notice them a lot less than we do.
Quiet Storm Posted October 22, 2014 Posted October 22, 2014 My coworker has issues with bags under her eyes and she has found a strange remedy that she swears by- cellulite cream. Apparently the caffeine that is in cellulite cream also works to shrink the bags under her eyes. 1
seekingpeaceinlove Posted October 22, 2014 Posted October 22, 2014 Have you tried hemorrhoid cream? Some women swear by it... My bf tends to have bags under his eyes...less when he's well-rested but they're always there. No matter, he is incredibly sexy and handsome.
Toodaloo Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 Have you tried hemorrhoid cream? I have been asking about bags under the eyes and this was the answer given to me!
JDPT Posted October 24, 2014 Posted October 24, 2014 You stop worrying about it. Concentrate on being healthy and doing the things you enjoy. For some girls your pale complexion will be enormously attractive so embrace your flaws. I totally agree. I prefer women with pale skin with jet black hair.
seekingpeaceinlove Posted October 31, 2014 Posted October 31, 2014 Yes, because apparently hemorrhoid cream tightens skin around the eyes when applied day/night. Look it up it might help. Or not..whatever. I have been asking about bags under the eyes and this was the answer given to me!
Author mefisto Posted November 25, 2014 Author Posted November 25, 2014 I made the photo of my bags: http://s10.postimg.org/rnxhl9889/bags.jpg My friend told me that they are not so big and repulsive, but i want to make sure. Have money problems right now, should i spend them on cosmetics or not? Is it possible to date girls with such bags?
Toodaloo Posted November 25, 2014 Posted November 25, 2014 Seriously? That is all you are worried about? No need. Its just one of those "I don't like this thing about myself" things that we all have.
Author mefisto Posted November 25, 2014 Author Posted November 25, 2014 Also, i found the actor who has similar bags and pale skin. There is his photo: http://www.cultbritannia.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/Iwan-Rheon-Misfits.jpg I guess, he looks hot for female audience, despite the bags. But i have more pale skin than him. And my doctor forbid me to go to tanning salon. Am i screwed for life?
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