emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 i broke the NC .. he didnt talk properly and i kept claling him and he kept cutting my phone call... and..he said he was going to call police or tell me parents(who are in india) if i called anymore. i wont call..i know..i called coz i just got hope from him....he said sumthing about getting back together.. and i got my hopes up..and then suddenly he started acting like an ass. i am not physcho i swear...
westernxer Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 You sound like you're becoming psycho, but I'm sure you're a nice girl. Still, he's threatening to call the cops and you keep calling him because he didn't "talk properly." No, you're not psycho at all... not even close.
Merin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 For the Love of.... LEAVE HIM ALONE! The more you continue to do this, the more desperate you appear to him... (and btw to everyone else as well) this is NOT an attractive quality in ANYONE. Leave him alone before he gets a restraining order on you.
alphamale Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 there is an old chinese proverb by confucious that say: "He or she who breaks NC first shall die a thousand deaths..." You won't see that one inside your fortune cookie!
westernxer Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 That's pretty funny... will have to remember that the next time I eat a fortune cookie.
Tonia2 Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Give the girl a break. We have all done it, and I know that feeling of desperation. Just don't do it again.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 i am not physcho...... ill prove it to u guys... Last contact 1:16 Pm March 9th 2005! HE called to say if u call me..I'll call ur parents!
sweet-oooh Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 just dont call him anymore! its hard but you can do it x
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 yup i can do it.. I WILL DO IT
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 do u know wht else did he say.. very few are lucky to be with their first love..you are not one of them. your happiness does not lie with me. I am not the one to make u happy. I dont see a future for us together... I hate him I hate him!
EC Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 do u know wht else did he say.. very few are lucky to be with their first love..you are not one of them. your happiness does not lie with me. I am not the one to make u happy. I dont see a future for us together... I hate him I hate him! Why do you hate him? You may hate him now but in reality he is doing you a favor. He's letting you know that there is nothing there and giving you the freedom to move on. Take it and roll with it. It's better than him having you there confused, giving you hope, or using you because you like him. He is telling you the truth. Is hard I know but eventually, hopefully, it will be for the best.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 yes he is doing me a favor... why cudnt he do it in the first year...why after friggin 6 years.. but thnk gos its atleast not a lifetime.. if he didnt wanna spend the rest of life with sumone whom he had slept with the first time and wanted to look at the world..he shud have ended it then!
beejsea2 Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 I know how you're feeling. I was with my ex for 4 1/2 years and he talked about a future a lifetime and five months ago he left...left me a note that said he didn't love me anymore and disappeared. At least the man that you were with was man enough to tell you these things to your face and not just up and take off on you. Maybe there were feelings and the possibility of a future...why things happen we'll never know. Like a friend told me this weekend about the break-up with my ex "It just wasn't meant to be." Yeah sounds like a cop out but I know that in the long run they're right. Just start NC again and some days it will be two steps forward and three steps back but the main thing is that you keep moving forward.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 thx beej.. yup i will move forward..he can try to stop me.. but i wont stop... he thinks i am obsessed with him.. he is so wrong..!
beejsea2 Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Another little tip... I keep a journal and write my moods my feelings etc. Every once in a while I go back and read what I have written and there are times that I'm like what the hell was I thinking...for example on a day that I might start crying over my ex etc. Do I have all the answers??? HELL NO!! If I did I wouldn't be here...giving support and receiving support.
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 doing that too lets see tried no contact in a rebound gonna have sex tonite.. write my feelings out.. only thing left is therapy and i have schedules an appointment with my doc so he can refer me to a therapist.
beejsea2 Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 There's nothing wrong with seeing a therapist. I've been seeing one since October...more so for myself so I learn from this entire mess that I've been going through!
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 10, 2005 Author Posted March 10, 2005 GOD I am missing him.. he isnt even logging on to the account where i can msg him. (NO I HAVENT MESSAGED HIM...DONT PLAN TO) but he wont even log on to it..i am not blocked..i can tell from his public profile..he is offline its going to be 24 hours in the next 1 hr. 15 mins. I'll be fine.. One day at a time... I'll be fine.. If i can get thru 24 hours..I can thru a lifetime.. It'll get easier... I will stop missing him. He will never call and check on me either.. I'll be fine... I can do this.. No one effects my life this much.. I am not stupid I get the picture..I am not wanted..and i have some pride left.. I'll be ok..
Author emotionsmessmeup Posted March 10, 2005 Author Posted March 10, 2005 whats the x curly - where are u girl?
CurlyIam Posted March 13, 2005 Posted March 13, 2005 Sorry, I missed your post. I am dealing with my own issues- finally breaking up with my bf. I am during my exams time also... sorry, my friend. You shold have PM-ed me about that. Don't know what to say except for: don't do anything you might regret, like sex with strangers.Take very very good care of yourself, you're so vulnerable right now... Try to accept that he doesn't want you in his life. IT's a huge blow to your ego, but maybe it's time to show some ego yourself!!!! Cry it off, talk it off, scream it off, just don't approach him. It's really really hard to break a habit, but remember that it's only that. A habbit. Not LOVE. Have faith and keep us posted about yourself... Love, Curly
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