Grevensteiner Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 I know one girl for like 3 months. We were friends for the first month, then we started more intimate relationship, and right now we're kissing, and doing basically all the "relationship stuff" instead of strictly speaking, sex. She tells me she became QUITE involved, she calls me every morning, wants to talk all the time, and we meet like every 2nd-3rd day. And tells me I'm not that much involved, asks me if I care for her, etc, etc. The problem is she's a little, well, slutty, I mean, she proposed me an open relationship. I told her I want normal relationship, and after A LOT, like really A LOT of talking, she agreed. But well, what changes? Nothing, a label. Just that she doesn't meet with this other dude she had earlier...but does she really? I'm 100% sure she's not involved with him, but her behavior, she just likes to pick him up, well, I don't know. And he lives 500km away and she doesn't meet with him for sure right now. So we can talk about bigger involvments, etc, etc, but where does it really go to? What now? What changes, what can change, well, what is tha whole relationship thing really about?
Nicholas123 Posted October 14, 2014 Posted October 14, 2014 Hey Grevensteiner, I just read your post. To be honest there looks like that there is a underline cause to your relationship that you don't trust her fully. And from what you have said in your post about how to took Alot of talking to get her to agree to a normal relationship not a open one, I don't blame you. If you have to convince a girl that much to be in a normal relationship with you, maybe it not worth it. I not saying that either one of you is right or wrong, that's not really what it is about. It about that you seem to both want different things i.e "a Normal Relationship" and "a Open Relationship" so maybe it's best to go your separate way rather than force each other to have something the other person may not really want. I hope this helps. Nick.
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