Ashley S Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 I was joking around with this guy and I was pranking him through texting. I was saying absurd things and joking around, but I know his friend (Chris) And he told me he sent the whole joking convo to Chris. I am embarrassed lol because I am not close or comfortable with Chris. He took a video of me one time and sent it to Chris. He tried to kiss me in front of Chris one time. Then he said (in a joking way) "Can you bring me lunch and little notes everyday to work?" Chris works with him, so that would be very obvious and weird. I know he was joking, but he seemed to be "joking on a square" if you know what I mean? Chris is married, so it's not a thing where he's trying to hook Chris up with me or anything, and plus he's jealous so I highly doubt that, but it's just weird how he feels the need to prove something to Chris and he texts Chris everything I do? Or he'll tell Chris things I do or talk about me to Chris. Why does he do that? Is it a male dominance thing? lol. Or something else? Thank you
ExpatInItaly Posted October 11, 2014 Posted October 11, 2014 He's secretly in love with Chris and trying to make him jealous so Chris will finally realize he wants him, too. 3
Assasda Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 The guy lives the saddest existence ever, and Chris is the only one that likes him, and he has to try to prove himself to Chris, by letting Chris think he has some girl in his life 2
quidproquo89 Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 I was joking around with this guy and I was pranking him through texting. I was saying absurd things and joking around, but I know his friend (Chris) And he told me he sent the whole joking convo to Chris. I am embarrassed lol because I am not close or comfortable with Chris. He took a video of me one time and sent it to Chris. He tried to kiss me in front of Chris one time. Then he said (in a joking way) "Can you bring me lunch and little notes everyday to work?" Chris works with him, so that would be very obvious and weird. I know he was joking, but he seemed to be "joking on a square" if you know what I mean? Chris is married, so it's not a thing where he's trying to hook Chris up with me or anything, and plus he's jealous so I highly doubt that, but it's just weird how he feels the need to prove something to Chris and he texts Chris everything I do? Or he'll tell Chris things I do or talk about me to Chris. Why does he do that? Is it a male dominance thing? lol. Or something else? Thank you never seen the name Chris in a paragraph so much in my life. Your mate sounds very immature and trying to impress cheaply. I'd tell him to sort out his act 2
Author Ashley S Posted October 12, 2014 Author Posted October 12, 2014 never seen the name Chris in a paragraph so much in my life. Your mate sounds very immature and trying to impress cheaply. I'd tell him to sort out his act Lol, well I put Chris a bunch of times because I didn't want people to be confused, because I am talking about two men. If I kept saying "He" people might get confused. Yeah I just don't understand it. He's really bizarre in telling Chris everything about me. I don't know what he's trying to prove? Thank you!
Diezel Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 You have some very weird friends. Every post that you make about your "male orbiters", I mean "friends", seems to be somewhat cringe-worthy. Stop feeding him info, problem solved. 1
spiderowl Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 He's an immature nutcase. Don't send him nude pics and check he doesn't have a video cam in his bedroom. Next thing you know he'll be sending his mate Chris your lovemaking video! 1
Author Ashley S Posted October 12, 2014 Author Posted October 12, 2014 You have some very weird friends. Every post that you make about your "male orbiters", I mean "friends", seems to be somewhat cringe-worthy. Stop feeding him info, problem solved. Lol, yes I hang around some weirdos. I am a very social person so I am friends with everyone, and I am friends with a lot of guys. You're right! Thank you.
Versacehottie Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 chris has probably said you are hot before (married or not-this is the stuff guys talk about). Therefore any show that you and this guy are close or that you have interest in him, is a way to show chris that he has game. I agree with those that said it's immature. Plus you don't want to be a pawn in his ego issues. hard to tell if he really likes you for you or is trying to collect trophies. Those collecting trophies types are ones to stay away from. Good luck 1
Author Ashley S Posted October 12, 2014 Author Posted October 12, 2014 (edited) He's an immature nutcase. Don't send him nude pics and check he doesn't have a video cam in his bedroom. Next thing you know he'll be sending his mate Chris your lovemaking video! Lol, I don't send him nude pics at all. I don't do that to anyone because I know the dangers of that and I would rather not do that. It's just funny pics, like one time he left his hoodie at my house and I took a picture with it on me, and I said "Does anything look familiar? lol" As a joke. But he sent that pic to Chris? I have no idea why he did that? Also he recorded me one time when I was in a car with him and I thought he was taking a picture, so I laughed and pushed the phone away, and he sent that video to Chris. And he sent the funny text convo to Chris, but like I said I didn't want Chris to see that because I was extremely crude lol, and I am only comfortable and extremely crude/joking like that with people I am comfortable with. So I was embarrassed to know that he sent Chris the whole convo. It's pointless and stupid. I don't know why he needs some sort of validation through Chris or something? And you might be right about a video recorder being in his bedroom! Luckily I was in his bedroom once but we didn't do anything sexual, he was selling his laptop haha. Edited October 12, 2014 by Ashley S
ExpatInItaly Posted October 12, 2014 Posted October 12, 2014 Well, have you ever just asked him why he does this? If it bothers you, tell him to stop. 2
Author Ashley S Posted October 12, 2014 Author Posted October 12, 2014 Well, have you ever just asked him why he does this? If it bothers you, tell him to stop. I did ask him. I said "Why did you send that convo to him? What are you trying to do?" He said "I also sent him your highschool pictures too hahahaha" He doesn't have any of my Highschool pics so that's a lie. He was joking but still he avoided the question.
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