mightycpa Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Thanks for you input Redhead14 and, agreed, 'nailed' may have been a poor choice of words. Then again, it may have been the perfect choice of words. On your first date, this woman raced you to the sack because she wanted you to **** her. Hopefully you did so with a great deal of energy, vigor and enthusiasm. You know, not unlike a hammer administering its punishment to a nail, driving it deeper and deeper into its target. The only unknown is how good of a carpenter you are. One thing is for sure. You guys weren't "making love." I would also bet that the fine women who chastised you for the use of that term would never have allowed you that privilege on Date #1, so it could be that they are viewing that encounter a little more romantically than it actually was. The English language can be quite rich when properly yielded, and "nailed" implies a tone that seems like it just might fit the occasion. What is really sweet is that you want it to be more than just that.
ThorntonMelon Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 I'd say his overwrought psychoanalysis of a 10 word text message suggests he is unlikely to pull off the "cool, confident" vibe. (For the record I am not good at it either, I just felt it was necessary for the context of my advice). Call, leave the message, go from there.
Author NDB71 Posted October 10, 2014 Author Posted October 10, 2014 It so did not turn out like that.....I never leave four messages....but three is ok, right? You see I needed to explain a few things....where I am at in life, how amazing she is, how I'd be even happy to see her for 15minutes whenever she is available, and how amazing she is...and how beautiful our kids would look... Alright, honestly, I left a short vmail (surprise! No pick!!). Ribbed get about being too chicken to go bowling because she's scared she'll get her ass kicked, and then tosses out a "too late for this weekend, so let's do something next week- let me know" Click. I know, lots of psycho-analysis in this. Hey if it's not part fun and part educational why post on such threads. Appreciate everyone's input, and we'll see what happens. Two other dates in the wings, so I'm not crying in my cornflakes.....but a shame, she actually passed up a good one...
venusishername Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Yeah, I think that was a good choice by what you said. Now leave it at that. If she wants to see you, now she knows the ball is in her court.
mightycpa Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Well, you're not out of the running yet. You sound like baby bear.... not too scared, not too arrogant. Just right. So, two things. #1 - Of course, let us know how it turns out. #2 - Tell me the truth. How many times did you rehearse it? Good luck.
Author NDB71 Posted October 10, 2014 Author Posted October 10, 2014 So, in the space of less than 24 hours I have been compared to a 'nailing' carpenter and ,now, a baby bear...... Ok, rehearsed just once and then went on-stage live. We'll see how the crowd reacts.....and I'll keep you posted! Cheers!!
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