Themanwithaplan Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 (edited) I got rejected by a girl that was stringing me along for months a week and a half ago. I was pretty bummed. Due to me not feeling sorry for myself and psychologically recognizing that this girl was a waste of time, I met another one 2 days later. It was way easier with this one because she was upfront and 4 years older than the last one(she's 31, I'm 27). I love the maturity. Just goes to show that it's all a learning experience and to not let a negative experience with someone prevent you from future relationships with others. This girl lives 2 states away so our fun is over for a while, but I know I'll have a place to stay when I go snowboarding in Colorado this winter. Also, I had an amazing time and it is kind of liberating and refreshing experiencing a new type of relationship. Obviously it was a little painful saying goodbye at the airport, but I recognize the situation for what it is and know any type of committed relationship won't work. For me, it was reminder that there are tons of compatible people out there and settling for less only demonstrates a lack of awareness. It made me feel great about myself and happy I don't have the other girl in my life anymore. It feels nice to be wanted. Don't let anybody waste your time and don't give up on yourself. Edited October 10, 2014 by Themanwithaplan Repeat title 2
umirano Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Ugh... just trying to make sense of a 27yo. When does it get better? But yeah, the attention jab is always welcome
Author Themanwithaplan Posted October 10, 2014 Author Posted October 10, 2014 She's a small town girl, and doesn't play games. Plus she's hot. I love it.
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