Georgia2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I have been talking to this guy for several days. He just asked me out we agreed on tomorrow but he suddenly has to see the doctor and isn't sure what time he will be done and he has to go to work tomorrow. We then agree on Sunday. Then he says he has plans he has to go to church. Nothing definite has been set for a date. Am I wasting my time with him?
DrReplyInRhymes Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I have been talking to this guy for several days. He just asked me out we agreed on tomorrow but he suddenly has to see the doctor and isn't sure what time he will be done and he has to go to work tomorrow. We then agree on Sunday. Then he says he has plans he has to go to church. Nothing definite has been set for a date. Am I wasting my time with him? As a guy myself, I will most often say this: A guy will move mountains if he thinks you're a fit. Granted life things come along, and plans change all the time, But if he keeps flaking like this, it isn't a good sign. I'm also a believer that it takes 3 times to note, If someone is serious, or just being a goat. Try to schedule another date, and see how it plays out, But do so carefully, as you're already filled with doubt. 6
Author Georgia2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Author Posted October 10, 2014 As a guy myself, I will most often say this: A guy will move mountains if he thinks you're a fit. Granted life things come along, and plans change all the time, But if he keeps flaking like this, it isn't a good sign. I'm also a believer that it takes 3 times to note, If someone is serious, or just being a goat. Try to schedule another date, and see how it plays out, But do so carefully, as you're already filled with doubt. Thank you for your advice and for answering my question. He did insult me by asking me at the last minute to meet tonight. I flat out told him no. Then he gave me the run around about tomorrow and about Sunday. 1
Poppygoodwill Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 He's not truly interested I'm afraid. If he was, he would lock you in on something. People do what they want to do, period. No harm though - just move on and leave him behind with no hard feelings. And count yourself lucky that you dodged a bullet by not getting to like him and then being stuck with his lack of interest. 3
what_a_blonde Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Thank you for your advice and for answering my question. He did insult me by asking me at the last minute to meet tonight. I flat out told him no. Then he gave me the run around about tomorrow and about Sunday. Good for you, I'm glad you told him no. I agree with previous poster though. If he flakes again don't waste any more time. I've been around the block a time or two with someone who says they are interested then ALWAYS reschedule. Then, they call you at night when they want to see you. NOPE.... next please. 2
Assasda Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Thank you for your advice and for answering my question. He did insult me by asking me at the last minute to meet tonight. I flat out told him no. Then he gave me the run around about tomorrow and about Sunday. I dont understand the insult here, Did he invite you to his house?
deathandtaxes Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 One reschedule? Ok, that's fair. But the second? Nah, now excuses are just being made. Take a pass and don't look back.
Author Georgia2014 Posted October 21, 2014 Author Posted October 21, 2014 I dont understand the insult here, Did he invite you to his house? I was insulted because he asked me at the last minute. I felt like he didn't take my feelings into consideration. I refused to run around on a minutes notice to get ready to go out with him. In the dating world any respectable guy knows to ask at least 24 hours ahead of time especially for a first date. If I let him get by with asking me out last minute for a first date he would continue on doing so. 1
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