collegestudent1 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 This guy that I met a few weeks ago at my school told me he loves me and wants to be his girlfriend the 2nd day he met me and tried to kiss me. He also touches me a lot and kisses me on the cheek goodbye and I don't like that at all. I told him I only like him as a friend today. Is this guy creepy? We are both 18. I don't like him at all. 1
preraph Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 He is creepy and too pushy. You need to not tell him you want to be friends because he will let everyone think it's more than that and ruin you going out with other guys, and anyway, he is creepy, so just tell him "I'm sorry, I'm not interested in dating you" and say no to being friends because it will only keep him hanging around. Block him every way possible. 3
CharlieFox Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 You don't like him at all, yet you tell him "you like him as a friend"... Why on EARTH would you like to have a friend who wants to see you naked and fantasizes a lot about ****ing your brains out?!? 4
sid3 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Agreed with the previous poster. No means no, why are you even posing this question. Creepy is as creepy does. 1
LoneIsland Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I don't think he's creepy. It's a case of one-sided love at first sight. Poor guy.
mightycpa Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 I don't like him at all. It is difficult, I know, but you should have told him that. 1
Arieswoman Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 collegestudent1, He also touches me a lot and kisses me on the cheek goodbye and I don't like that at all If you have told him you don't want to date him then his behaviour is totally inappropriate. He seems to have got the girlfriend/friend line blurred. Tell him now to stop what he is doing because you don't like it. If he persists after that, tell your teacher/tutor or another official at your school/college. Don't give him your 'phone number or tell him where you live, or he could end up stalking you. 2
The Like Fairy Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 (edited) This guy that I met a few weeks ago at my school told me he loves me and wants to be his girlfriend the 2nd day he met me and tried to kiss me. He also touches me a lot and kisses me on the cheek goodbye and I don't like that at all. I told him I only like him as a friend today. Is this guy creepy? We are both 18. I don't like him at all. Yes he has a problem and yes he is creepy. He should not be touching you. Go NO CONTACT with this individual. No friendship. He has big problems and if you allow him in your world even a tiny bit they will soon be your problems you have to deal with on a daily basis as well....... Edited October 10, 2014 by The Like Fairy 1
FitChick Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Tell him that he is not your type. If he asks what type of man is your type describe someone totally different looking than he is. 1
The Like Fairy Posted October 10, 2014 Posted October 10, 2014 Tell him that he is not your type. If he asks what type of man is your type describe someone totally different looking than he is. I like this in theory but honestly OP you owe him no explanation whatsoever and besides, if he is brazen enough to touch and kiss you as he has without invite, he won't take this other information into consideration. In other words, he's a blockhead.
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