blue_eyes18 Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 What do you think my boyfriends means by this? Ok, we started going out officially last night, lol. It was so sweet. Anyways, I am wondering if he thinks something bad, cause after we have sex, I am ready again! I know it sounds crazy, but it's true. I haven't always been like that, but I really like it with him. THen he keeps asking me if I love him, I am sitting here wondering why he is asking me that, like, does he love me too? Anyways, he asked me something like why I always wanna have sex like all night long, and I was thinking "WTF?""" He asked me is it because he wasn't good enogh or what? I said that is not it, it's just that I like it and stuff. I don't know what he was saying by that, and we were at his parents last night. Also, he was saying things like he was wondering if I just liked having sex, or if I actually liked him. Blah blah blah. I think it is important how he feels, but all these questions are kinda confusing me! I can't tell why he wants to know. I think it is just because he really wants to know how I feel, but then again, it is confusing me. He said having sex so much like that right after we get done isn't cool. So does that mean he thinks i am weird or something? lol I don't get why he is being so ticky about it. I don't do that, we never have sex over an hour usually, so what is his big f'n problem? DOes anyone know what he is trying to tell me? I think he might be saying that cause he wants to know if I like sex with him because of my feelings for him, not just physically. I hope this doesn't sound like a dumb question. lol
Author blue_eyes18 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 oh, and get this. I remember once last night, he was saying if I wanna keep having sex, it doens't need to be boring. We were talking about trying new things. WHAT THE F***??? Why does he say such sweet things and then say some crazy mess like that? And then ask me if I love him....???
Author blue_eyes18 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 So what, if I don't keep him "interested" he is gonna **** something else? I mean, he needs to watch what he says. But then he said he doesn't just mess around with anyone, so maybe he didn't mean all of this bad. I just need to not worry aobut it so much.
NTB Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 wow you sound like my ex she wanted to have sex all the time and was always ready to go, i thought that was great. i dunno what the deal is with your boyfriend but i guess you won't really know until you guys have a heart to heart about it. it could be many things maybe he wants to make sure he is satisfying you or he could just want to know if you love him maybe he has been burn in the past and just wants reassurance on your relationship i'd say talk to him about it
ReluctantRomeo Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 To me he just sounds a little insecure. Have a chat and reassure him that you're so keen because of how you feel about him.
Author blue_eyes18 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Thanks ya'll, that sounds good. I needed a second opinion on this! I will talk to him, I'll try anyways, I just hope he doesn't confuse me even more. Lol!
Author blue_eyes18 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 In another conversation, he also said that I have to keep him interested(we were talking about sex, well, oral sex) I thought that was kinda outta line, but I don't think he meant anything bad. He said he really likes the sex, so whatever.
Naive Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Mabe he has never had a girl like you and is a bit surprised by you. I think you have to explain to him that he knows how to work it so well that you just want more and more. Tell him it's completely the opposite of what he thinks.
WalkingTall Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Being young.... (I think), he may find himself at feeling inadequate and worried that you may have a much higher sex drive than him. This can lead to thoughts of him not being able to completely satisfy you. That can be hard for a man to take... As for the other things... maybe he has some strong feelings for you and doesnt want to feel as though he is going overboard and scare you off for being too clingy.
Author blue_eyes18 Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 I think you are right, I just wonder why every now and then he makes it seem as though I am the one who is clingy. I am confused. Maybe he thought he scared me away at first, and so he backed off. We are together now, I just wonder why he says some things. It makes me wonder how he feels about me! I think it is just his insecurities though, like ya'll said. I have given off the wrong vibes before on accident because of insecurities, I mean, who hasn't? I just want to make sure that he is sure in his feelings for me before I go all out and tell him all this stuff. THen when he says some stuff like that about sex, it just confuses me even more!
Author blue_eyes18 Posted March 10, 2005 Author Posted March 10, 2005 Guess what? Last night, I went over there and he was being so sweet! It was his idea this time, I know what he is doing. He is trying to make sure I have feelings for him. Oh my God, he is the sweetest person ever!
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