love1336x Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 (edited) They want to be with you, but in reality they do not. Maybe I am over thinking, but I keep thinking about the dude before my current boyfriend. I've known him since high school. It was an on and off friendship. We would go months without talking, and months of talking. He would always talk about how much he liked me, and wanting me to be his girlfriend. Well, I gave him that chance. We dated for few weeks, and the first night we had sex, he straight up told me. I want to be friends ONLY. I agreed. I felt like this was a blow to me, so I texted my ex out of sadness, within that week me and him were back together. This dude who i only had sex with ONCE. He totally FLIPPED ON ME! He told, "hey i really like you. What's wrong? how could you get back with him. I wanting you to be my girlfriend!" I basically ignored him, and put him on block. He SHOWED UP AT MY JOB! It scared the CRAP OUT OF ME! I took a quick break and talked to him then and there! Telling him, "HEY YOU SAID YOU WANTING TO BE FRIENDS!" I used all HIS lines ON HIM. He said I was in the wrong, and I should have known how he felt... He then "warned" me if I didn't break up with my current boo, he would make my life a living hell. That was over 4 weeks ago. He has not bothered me since... but from time to time. I do get worried i'll see his face again.... Edited October 9, 2014 by love1336x
salparadise Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Just guessing... he thought he was in like Flynn, that you'd be pursuing and he could treat you like a FWB. Then when you rejected him he was butt hurt. He was forced to realize that one roll in the hay did not put you under his magic spell, that you have options and he does not. So he's backing up, changing his tune, saying what he thinks you need to hear, or whatever works, for you to grant him continued access. Basically, he overplayed his hand and got caught bluffing. 2
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 It is not what people say, it is what they mean by their actions. If you think things are smooth running, then slow down and really see for yourself.
Author love1336x Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 Just guessing... he thought he was in like Flynn, that you'd be pursuing and he could treat you like a FWB. Then when you rejected him he was butt hurt. He was forced to realize that one roll in the hay did not put you under his magic spell, that you have options and he does not. So he's backing up, changing his tune, saying what he thinks you need to hear, or whatever works, for you to grant him continued access. Basically, he overplayed his hand and got caught bluffing. Yea, his sex was GOOD, but wasn't that amazing for me to pick my current so. A man who wants to be with me, and not play games.
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