Giha Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 (edited) Hey all, First of all, things to note: -I'm 22, she's 18 -She was in a 3 year relationship which ended 3 months ago, with a dude who does drugs (not weed) and made her life miserable So I've been dating this girl. Let's call her V. I met V online and we hit it off really well. We talked every day and we liked each other a lot. A week later we decide to meet and it goes very well. We keep talking, she tells me I'm amazing, how she's happy we met and how she misses me all the time. We meet a few more times, the last time was last night. It was really good. She saw her ex from afar, I asked her if it bothers her and she said not at all. We decided we were "official". She smiled and said it was important for her to hear it from me. Later she introduces me to her friends, it went well and then we had to leave. I wake up this morning, send her a good morning text. 1 hour passes and I get a reply: "Listen, I've been thinking about all that has been happening between us and I would really rather if we ended it here. I realized we were not compatible and I don't see how this can go anywhere" My question is: What? Everything goes perfect and then this? Can anyone try to shed some light over this? Anyhow for the time being I removed her from Facebook and I intend to go NC. Edited October 9, 2014 by Giha
SoThatHappened Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Her ex came back in the picture last night. 1
Author Giha Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 Her ex came back in the picture last night. Yeah, I guess. It's just mind boggling that she would throw away something so good because she saw this guy who practically ruined her life. My friend says she got cold feet and bailed. Says she thinks V will regret it within a week. I don't even know if I want her to. Damn it.
Frank2thepoint Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Yeah, I guess. It's just mind boggling that she would throw away something so good because she saw this guy who practically ruined her life. If she had a miserable relationship with her ex for three years, you have to really question why did she remain with him, to suffer, for three years? The only sensible answer is that she is codependent. Believe me when I say this. You dodged a bullet. You avoided a lot of pain and heartache. For future reference, never get romantically involved with someone that came out of a dysfunctional relationship. You can be friends, if you want. 1
Author Giha Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 If she had a miserable relationship with her ex for three years, you have to really question why did she remain with him, to suffer, for three years? The only sensible answer is that she is codependent. Believe me when I say this. You dodged a bullet. You avoided a lot of pain and heartache. For future reference, never get romantically involved with someone that came out of a dysfunctional relationship. You can be friends, if you want. You are probably right but I can't help but feel disappointed. I'm just glad it didn't get too serious before she flipped on me.
feelymcfeel Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Her ex came back in the picture last night. This all day long. Forget about her, pal. I know it might not be easy, but better sooner rather than later.
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