Girl with a lot of guy friends

[piggyoink]

Up here in British Columbia such a thing(women with a lot of guy friends) is quite common.

[Trane]

Be careful.....you ever hear that song Biz Markie "Just a friend".....just saying

 

Haha kinda true. I see that.

 

I don't see a problem with a girl having a lot of guy friends likewise a guy having many girls as just friends in his life.

 

What I've come to understand is that a girl with a lot of guy friends might have slept with some of them but likely not all of them. I have to accept and swallow that as her past and not let it get in the way of the here and now. Her past is really none of my business nor who her friends are. In a new relationship, it's me that's trying to get in her circle more than just a friend. Me passing judgment on her before the relationship materializes is immature and disrespectful.

 

I do find it bothersome when the girl I'm dating needs to introduce me to guys she'said been with and their current situations.

[Phoe]

What I've come to understand is that a girl with a lot of guy friends might have slept with some of them but likely not all of them.

 

Or she's slept with none of them.

[Trane]

Or she's slept with none of them.

 

Highly unlikely but possible.

[Phoe]

Highly unlikely but possible.

 

Very possible! I have not slept with any of my male friends. I only have sex in a relationship, and don't keep exes around as friends, so that's an easy day

[Ducky71]

Make your move stallion!!

 

What's that Wayne Gretzky quote..."You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"...Live it bro!!

 

As others have pointed out, typically, a girl with a lot of guy friends has probably hooked up with one or two of them at one time or another. (With obvious exceptions) If you can't deal with that, then there's no point in ruining a perfectly good friendship.