Linlin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Amen to that sister. I know how you feel and where you are coming from. Right now, until I meet him. I'll take my booty call but it doesn't keep the bed warm at night.
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Mr Spock Same here. And I'll take being able to fix sh*t over intelligence. I am ready for something different. But still lots of fornication. So I'll just see how you do it. Go on, let me see. Well you can watch if you want. I believe the technical term is called "rubbernecking" Oh God I just need a frikkin day off so I can spaz out about men and relationships. Poor guy kept going on about how he thought I was sexy and funny and had a bizarre kooky sense of humor, blah blah blah. But he was starting to get on my nerves. He does this feminine scream when he is startled. And sings in a falsetto voce sometimes which annoys me. And I was like, hey, pour this 40 lbs. bag of dogfood in the automatic feeder, and he struggled with it. Be a man, damn it! MY testicles are bigger than his!!!!
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin Amen to that sister. I know how you feel and where you are coming from. Right now, until I meet him. I'll take my booty call but it doesn't keep the bed warm at night. I can always take 1000 mg of depakote at night to knock me out. My pitbull mix Bruce Banner keeps me warm at night. In fact he does this passive aggressive thing where he wiggles up between me and whoever I sleep with and quietly, evilly, subtly pushes them off the edge of the bed. Not MY FAAAAUUUUULT. Why can't I find someone to f*ck the sh*t out of me and also make me laugh? Huh?
Linlin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 I have found that guy except for the fact that he keeps company with some serious criminal element and that is not good for me to be around. Where can we find "nice" guys who can do this. I am a nice girl. I just happen to be a "bad" girl behind closed doors.
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin I have found that guy except for the fact that he keeps company with some serious criminal element and that is not good for me to be around. Where can we find "nice" guys who can do this. I am a nice girl. I just happen to be a "bad" girl behind closed doors. Yeah, stay away from the criminal element. Says the woman with two ex's who are either currently in prison or awaiting sentencing. Besides the fact that you could end up in prison, I mean, what does that say about them and how they feel about *themselves* that they can't respect themselves enough to deal with the world in a mature manner? Bad boys always like "nice" girls, too, as if the goodness can rub off on them in some way. I want to find a nice guy, but I find most nice guys boring. When I was hashing it out with Mr. grad student, I was like - you are too nice. You have been too good in your life. I ama bad girl, I've done bad things with bad people who liked doing other bad things. I don't feel worthy of it. SO I feel like I settle for less, guys who don't respect themselves or me, because I feel bad about my past. I've read a lot of guys on here say that they hold their woman's past against them - well I have a past, a bad one, filled with sh*t and stupid mess-ups and mistakes. And it does not make me feel good about myself.....but I know too many guys who would hold it against me....and so I'm stuck with the a**h***s.
Linlin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Yeah, I know. Last time I said that I was not going back there and I did. If I could meet someone I wouldn't but when you are lonely.... It would look great if I ended up in jail and my ex got my kids. YIKES!!!! I need to meet a nice guy who likes to have fun, but of course where????
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin Yeah, I know. Last time I said that I was not going back there and I did. If I could meet someone I wouldn't but when you are lonely.... It would look great if I ended up in jail and my ex got my kids. YIKES!!!! I need to meet a nice guy who likes to have fun, but of course where???? That's the question of the century. I am an attractive young woman, I own my house, my car, I have a college degree. I am mildly insane but at least I admit it. And I see all my crazy homies in unfulfilling relationships. It's like, yeah I want to be in one, and then once I get there I am like, woah this is NOT for me. Reality check time, otter.
WalkingTall Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin Where can we find "nice" guys who can do this. I am a nice girl. I just happen to be a "bad" girl behind closed doors. Before I met my GF, I would have died to find someone like that.... I decided to wait and not settle (just have fun while in line) .... Now I have exactly what you described yourself as. So many of my guy friends are looking for that, and it seems as though there are very few women that you can bring home to Mom, and then go back home and have a raunchy deviantly sinful night together. And B_O, you did absolutely the right thing...
alphamale Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter I want to find a nice guy, but I find most nice guys boring.
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Yeah, what? I will wrestle you into submission with my shapely buttocks and thighs, alpha. And then what? THEN WHAT, I say? Ya know, off topic but my friend B is from detroit and we had like a 15 minute conversation on how the mean ass size in detroit must be bigger than down here because there are more chubb-o people there, on average. His aunts both still live up there and each are twice the size of his mother. I said, oh your mom must have gotten the thin genes. He was like, no way man, it's totally detroit. Detroit makes women get fat when they are old. Huh. On-topic, I want sex. But the only ones who want to give me sex either want something I am unwilling to/don't want to give, or they want something way to casual. I don't know what I want. I want a man with a slow hand. OK I am definately having a coffee buzz going. I hate my boss. I want some cock. Not in that order. I could get cock from a variety of sources, all male friends of mine. But do I want to deal with the implications of getting that cock? no. I just want cock. I mean, GOOOOOOOD cock. Not awkward, ooops, "I care about you but I am just not good at this sort of thing" sex - I want to have my face pounded in the mattress for 2 hours and then a backrub and then more face pounding and then eggs benedict for breakfast. Is that so much to ask?
alphamale Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Is that so much to ask? My Rx is you go off the Depakote and start on Trileptal. You'll find it is much better.
jmargel Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Don't take this personally blind_otter.. But for some odd reason I expect to see you on a Jerry Springer show.
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by jmargel Don't take this personally blind_otter.. But for some odd reason I expect to see you on a Jerry Springer show. How would I not take this personally? Anyways, also - how does telling this guy that we want different things a Jerry Springer-esque thing to do? And HOW am I trailer park???
WalkingTall Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin Unfortunately, you live in Alberta. Alberta is great!!!!! I did the Ontario thing for a long time....til I was 22. I have to admit, I do like Ontario! Worked there over the summer last year, and it renewed my love for the province. Oh crap.... here I am going so far off-topic.... somebody slap me!
Linlin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 On-topic, I want sex. But the only ones who want to give me sex either want something I am unwilling to/don't want to give, or they want something way to casual. I don't know what I want. I want a man with a slow hand. OK I am definately having a coffee buzz going. I hate my boss. I want some cock. Not in that order. I could get cock from a variety of sources, all male friends of mine. But do I want to deal with the implications of getting that cock? no. I just want cock. I mean, GOOOOOOOD cock. Not awkward, ooops, "I care about you but I am just not good at this sort of thing" sex - I want to have my face pounded in the mattress for 2 hours and then a backrub and then more face pounding and then eggs benedict for breakfast. Is that so much to ask? It sounds perfectly reasonable to me. That was the kind of sex that I had on Sunday night. Of course, that bad boy is not good for me as we said. Hard not to go back there when it is that good and you have nothing else going on. blind_otter, I am in the same boat as you. I have 3 university degrees, own my own house, hot tub, car, etc. I am good looking, a MILF, so I have been told on several occassions. I don't flaunt it or anything. I look about 6-7 younger than I am, blond, big b**bs, loves sex, etc. I think the problem is that alot of guys are intimidate by successful, good looking women. I think we can be agressive because we know what we want and we go for it. Why do men have a problem with it?
alphamale Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin I think the problem is that alot of guys are intimidate by successful, good looking women. I think we can be agressive because we know what we want and we go for it. Why do men have a problem with it? I agree that many men are. But not me. I come from a very successful, intelligent and good looking family and have many of those qualities myself. Bird of a feather flock together for a reason, cause they don't intimidate one another. Problem is that there are not very many people out there that are successful, smart and good looking all wrapped in one pkg. You are talking about maybe 2% of the general populus.
WalkingTall Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Is that so much to ask? I think the problem is that alot of guys are intimidate by successful, good looking women. I think we can be agressive because we know what we want and we go for it. Why do men have a problem with it? Possibly self-esteem and control issues... Originally posted by alphamale I agree that many men are. Bird of a feather flock together for a reason, cause they don't intimidate one another. OMG... I may actually agree with Alpha....
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 I try to make up for it by being as unstable, inconsistent, and craaaay-zaaaay as possible. I still hate people. People hate me, I hate people. I dress well, put makeup on....I ordered a nice bunch of stila eyeshadows that was pretty cool. I got yet another pair of shoes to soothe my wounded ego. And two pairs of thigh highs. Whatever makes ya feel better, dumbass.
Linlin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 I agree with Alpha too.... So then where to you meet men like you??? Actually, the reason I am not married is partly due to the fact that my ex couldn't handle that I was more successful, good mom, good wife, ran the house worked full time, etc. He also had issues with his family and depression issues that I couldn't help with and had nothing to do with me. He refused any type of help from me, other familymemeber, professional, etc. We were also not compatible in the bedroom. I wanted it more than him, but I think all the other stuff he was dealing with played into that as well. I don't need a man to make more money than I do. He could be a ditch digger, but if he works hard and can talk to me and treat me and others well, I am interested. If he treats me like I am special, I'll treat him the same. Therefore, for the time being, I end up with booty call.
alphamale Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by Linlin So then where to you meet men like you??? Hmmm...let's see, where do i hang out? - nicer bars and clubs sometimes - nice restaurants - wine tastings - singles events/groups geared towards professionals - personal enrichment courses (i.e. Dale Carnegie) - at work (i.e. Fortune 500 companies) - bookstores - singles sporting activities (volleyball, softball, etc...) and many other places I can't think of right now.
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Feh. I am in a funk and can't find the energy to flirt right now. I am a reasonably attractive woman. I am well educated. I am sexually voracious and adventerous. I am too picky though. Too Too Too picky.
alphamale Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter I am too picky though. Too Too Too picky. I am not trying to be facetious or anything B_O, but from the posts of yours that I have read over the past four months I personally think you are not picky enough.
Author blind_otter Posted March 9, 2005 Author Posted March 9, 2005 Maybe I am not picky enough.....that kind of freaks me out. To think that I would actually have to spend time alone, gasp, how can that beeeeeee? I don't want a man to make me happy. I want a man to make my GENITALS happy. Just kidding, I mean, I meet nice guys - all are bad in bed. I met bad guys, all are great in bed. How does that frikkin work?
Linlin Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 I am doing some of those things and going to some of the places that you mentioned. Part of the problem is I am not in a major city. I always seem to meet the same type and end up meeting guys who are, without sounding arrogant, my "equal" I end up meeting guys who I have to take are of. Or sometimes if they are a decent guy, I end up sleeping with them way too soon because I am permanently horny.
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