Ignored question but sent pics, his way of saying no?

[ThisisIt606]

We met off paid online dating site. He's 10 years older than me (I'm in 20s he's in 30s) We've been on 5 dates initiated by him.

 

Dates: dinner, drinks, bowling, and movies/ dinner at his place. I briefly met his mom and brother who were visiting him at his place. He had his mom talk to me, stating topic we could relate to. On date 2 he told me he wasn't into hook ups and wasn't a big texter/into social media accounts.

 

I stayed over his place once but we did not have sex. Just heavy making out/petting. The next date (movies/dinner his place) he drove me home and said it will be a long time until he sees me again and seemed sad. Said he'll be in the country for the next 2 weeks &we can text the last week he'll be out of country.

 

He texted the next morning, saying it was good to see me, thanked me for coming over, and missed my kisses already. He left Friday for his 3 wk trip.

 

I texted Sunday and he responded Monday AM his time. We texted and he sent me pics of himself with the dog hes visiting since we both love dogs.

 

No texting Tuesday. Wednesday I texted asking if he's been to a certain movie theater and it's great for cuddling bc it was removable arm rests and that we should go sometime:).

 

He responded it was his kind of movie theater and would love to check it out. He also joked that he's partial to (His name) Max at (his address) bc it has the best cuddling and is the coziest in town asking if i've ever been. I played along and said hmm I think so :)Definitly hard to beat the cozy factor there and that both his place and the movie theater were nice.

 

I then asked if he wanted to see the movie Annabelle ( we both like horror movies)

 

Was me asking to see Annabelle with me too forward? I know guys like "the chase" so idk if it was too much to ask? However I'm most confused by his response. He sent me 2 pics. One of the dog and one of him and dog but didn't answer my question! I replied nicely about the pics. Is he just avoiding my question/doesn't want to go? He paid for all dates so far so I'm hoping he doesn't think "oh crap another thing to pay for" However I plan on treating him this time. (but in terms of money he's made it very clear, multiple times that he's "highly successful" and well off)

Edited October 9, 2014 by ThisisIt606

[Assasda]

I dont know where you came up with this.

"Guys like the chase" crap from.

I have absolutely no idea.

 

He already says he doesnt like texts.

 

You can text him something cheeky like, "If the movie is to scary for you, I'll understand"

[CharlieFox]

So why are you making a new thread which is literally the same as the old one?

 

And no, it's a normal question, it's short and specific (about a certain movie), maybe he was distracted while texting, sometimes it happens to me to "forget" to respond to a specific question during texting with someone, and not just girls, but friends and family too.

 

Stop worrying about every single thing, it's going fine and if you're so insecure about every little thing like that, eventually he'll catch it and the things you're constantly worrying about will start to appear because you're "forcing" it.

 

Just enjoy it and be easy going with the whole thing. He said he would love to check out that place, so stop worrying.

[snowflakes88]

He's on a trip. He could be busy. He could be distracted. He may have skimmed the text and missed the question. A million possibilities. Wait until he gets back and then ask him -- on the phone or in person, not via text. You have so many threads going about this man just since he left... are you thinking if you don't solidify the next date now now now he might forget about you or something??

[ThisisIt606]

Yes, thanks you're all right. I'm sure it's fine... I just tend to over think things/pull things apart which I know is bad. Will just relax and see how this goes since it is the very beginning stages after all.