Corutan Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 ABOUT SITUATION: 2 years ago: There is a girl that I know for 2.5 years. However, for the first year of knowing each other, I was interested only in her personality and that is why I only tried to keep her as a friend. Our friendship was that strong that even got off campus housing together for one year. We hangout a lot together. Going to the dinner or going to the cinema was quite normal for us and I was doing it mostly because I wanted to check some new restaurant or see new movie. 6 month ago: After school year was over, we moved out from our place and next year we got different places to leave. 1-2 month before we move out I realized that I really like her: physically and spiritually. I realized that she is the first girl that I really enjoy spending time with, and I want more. However, everything is not so easy. I still show NO INTEREST to her, because I think that if I do and she would not like me than there could be two scenario: - She would manipulate me like any girl do that have guy friends - She gonna push me away. I know guys that she did this stuff with and never talk with them anymore She think that I don't like her. She even told her friend that "I would never kiss her even if I am drunk". However, her friend also don't know if she likes me, but she never said "never". That is what is it getting complicated. I cannot just invite her to have dinner like with any other girl, because we did it a lot before and it would not show intention. What I gonna lose if I fail? I would lose best friend that I have. I would better not having any romantic relationship and just keep her with me. SHE: - Really Hot - Has more guy friends than girl friends. - Manipulative ME: - I am more relationship guy. I don't like to waste my time or money on someone who I am not gonna see next day. ----------------- QUESTIONS: - What would you do in this situation? - How I can find out if she likes me too? - What options do I have?
Assasda Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 hahaha you put yourself in the friendzone man. You liked her from the beginining, but you chose to be her lap-dog. You made your bed, now sleep in it. 1
Author Corutan Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 hahaha you put yourself in the friendzone man. You liked her from the beginining, but you chose to be her lap-dog. You made your bed, now sleep in it. I know, I really put myself in the friendzone in the beginning and it was not mistake, because I benefit a lot from that (we always helped each other, she has hot friends). Having any kind of relationship was not my goal that time. But now I interested in it If you have any suggestions, write it here 1
Assasda Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I know, I really put myself in the friendzone in the beginning and it was not mistake, because I benefit a lot from that (we always helped each other, she has hot friends). Having any kind of relationship was not my goal that time. But now I interested in it If you have any suggestions, write it here What you do is, you want to present yourself to her as a sexual being. Right now she veiws you as an Asexual partner. But you want to flirt with her a little more, and plant the seed of possibility in her mind. Not much more you can do
Diezel Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 She has more guy friends and she's manipulative? OP, I think you are suffering from an acute case of: Lack of Options.
Recommended Posts