noson Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I've been dating a girl for a little over a month. It was hot and heavy at the beginning. We have both agreed to slow down and we aren't being sexually active. Just kissing. I'm totally fine with that. We are both in our thirties and I'm 7 years older than her. I've met her family and they love me. She lives an hour away. Well this past weekend was the last we've hung out. Everything was fine sunday and for most of Monday. Then I noticed on Tuesday morning she was short with me. We do text a lot and are trying to text less and talk on the phone more. Well around lunch time Tuesday she set she's super busy with work and that we should only text good morning, at lunch, and talk on the phone at night. I agreed and left it there. Well we did talk last night, but I felt like she was asking me stuff about my past that she somehow doesn't believe me for some reason. I'm an open book and have been totally honest with her. I texted briefly this morning and at lunch which she says she slammed at work and I just told her to text me later when she has time. She just texted me at 5:45pm and asked if she should can call later if not too late which I said yes. Should I ask straight up over the phone what the deal is or should I see how the conversation goes? This is short notice lol.
Assasda Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I dont see your problem here? I didnt describe any sort of distance or anything
Gloria25 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 What is the stuff about your past? I think that would help us understand where her insecurities are coming from.
Author noson Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 I've did volunteer work at hospitals rehabbing patients while in college that was part of going to PT school. I also was a certified personal trainer back in the day. She asked me to repeat both of those incidences like I lied about both. She even asked me the address of one the clinics I volunteered at which was over 15 years ago. I didn't remember and stated as much. I think she may have a trust issue. I'm not going to continue to defend myself over stupid crap like this. I don't know if trust is really the issue or it is something else and she's just pulling at straws.
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