What do you think????

[Hero33]

Hi wonder what your views are I was in a relationship for 12 yrs we was not getting on so was having time out after couple weeks I got text saying he can't handle the pressure of a relationship I was devastated any way after a few weeks I tok his belongs to him that he left at mine. He was surprised but seemed happy to see me he had been on holiday apparently on his own know that was something he said he would never do.. Anyway he gave me a big cuddle when it was then I realised I still loved him. He said he had ear infection an couldn't hear probably when he better we will have a chat. He txt me 2 days later asking if I wanted to go see his don an grandchildren which I did anyway cut long story short I have quiet bit of contact with him an seen him also. I invited him to dinner Saturday night he made the effort dressed smart shaved an brought me chocs I wrote him a letter laying my cards on table saying I will do what ever it takes all I ask is complete honesty if he doesn't have any feelings for me then please tell me also I will leave it up to him to decided where we go from here he read the letter put it n table an didn't say word we watched TV then after bout an hour he left gave me a kiss an hug good bye. Last night he took. Me an my daughter out for dinner when he dropped us off he asked me if I would like to go to his mums on Saturday as his son an grandchildren will be there I asked him well we are we at he laughed an said yes we will have a chat .... So I'm totally confused oh also Saturday he showed me something's on his ipad left me flicking through when I came a crossed couple of pics of his mates lady friend him an her posing together an one of her on her own WHY???? Please help......

[preraph]

If he said it was his friend's lady, then I wouldn't worry about it. Well, maybe he had a little crush, but maybe he just was happy for his friend. He is wanting to spend time with you. Maybe he needs a little more space on a regular basis. Seems like he appreciated you more after having a little space. Why not ask him more about his friend and the lady. Ask if those two are serious or whatever to get him talking. Then ask him if he needs more space or time alone or what and see if you can give it to him without it costing you too much. Good luck.