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What methods have you used when it comes to dating?

 

Friends

Family

Dating Sites

Public Places

Craigslist

 

I've tried dating sites, Craigslist, and a friend set me up with someone they knew.

 

What about you?

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I guess I'm a little OCD, because I tend to keep records of stuff like this in spreadsheets. Actually, I'm ADD so I have to write everything down! :)

 

2 via IRL (one was an ex from ten years ago)

3 via Match

10 via OKC

1 via Tinder

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I met most of my past BFs in school.

 

As an adult I met some through friends, at bars, at professional events, on OLD, & at a high school reunion.

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Bowling league, horseback riding clubs, golfing, local bar/restaurant

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I guess I'm a little OCD, because I tend to keep records of stuff like this in spreadsheets. Actually, I'm ADD so I have to write everything down! :)

 

2 via IRL (one was an ex from ten years ago)

3 via Match

10 via OKC

1 via Tinder

 

Sorry, I left out that those were my dates from this year. Prior to this year, there are some huge gaps in the dating.

 

Working backwards:

 

-Last LTR, met through mutual friends.

-Second wife, met on eHarmony

-A few dates before her, mostly from OLD

-One semi-serious relationship with an old high school friend who I reconnected with after 20 years

-First wife I met in college through a mutual friend

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2 - by accidentally stumbling about online. Since I am terrible with online names, it was a surprise for the both of us. HA! Both being the longest in relationships. So, depending on how well you convo, online can be better if shy or too nervous in person.

 

3 - by work association took about a year to start. One was a year, the others were FWB after a year of knowing them.

 

2 - by local hang out which was the fastest at starting and in ending, like 2 months. 1 was an instant GF a week after a mutual ending a FWB. Needless to say I never bothered doing the instant GF thing again.

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Dating is much like an online game,

You never know where you'll find a dame,

It could be your friend, they could be unknown,

In time you'll realize you meet people everywhere including your home!

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