Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I watched this thing on CNN about people being late virgins. I am not a virgin but I was celibate for quite a few years. I am no longer celibate and am in a really refreshingly, adult and secure relationship where people actually COMMUNICATE! ( wow what a difference to the norm) We have this funny stigma in our society that says if your over the age of say 25 and haven't had sex your a little crazy. But out of curiosity, what is the benefits of a late virgin and what are stigmas. Would anyone out there date a older virgin? would other people refrain from doing so? What has happened to our society that has placed less emphasis on being a virgin these days? Is being experienced in the sack overrated? Thoughts? Just a question/questions I'd like to put out there
Redhead14 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I watched this thing on CNN about people being late virgins. I am not a virgin but I was celibate for quite a few years. I am no longer celibate and am in a really refreshingly, adult and secure relationship where people actually COMMUNICATE! ( wow what a difference to the norm) We have this funny stigma in our society that says if your over the age of say 25 and haven't had sex your a little crazy. But out of curiosity, what is the benefits of a late virgin and what are stigmas. Would anyone out there date a older virgin? would other people refrain from doing so? What has happened to our society that has placed less emphasis on being a virgin these days? Is being experienced in the sack overrated? Thoughts? Just a question/questions I'd like to put out there Well, there is a school of thought that says that sexual compatibility plays a significant part in a relationship. If an "inexperienced" woman gets into a relationship with someone who is experienced, a couple of things can happen: a) the woman may be uncomfortable to begin with and if the other person does something maybe a little unconventional, she will be frightened or turned off or whatever and/or b) the experience will be bad for the other person. Granted, if she is with someone who is understanding and goes slowly, etc. it's all good. However, the older the virgin is, the older and more experienced her partner would likely be. Does her partner want to teach her the "ropes"? I dunno. It's an interesting question though. It depends on why she is a virgin too I guess. If she's a virgin because she has some kind of hang up about sex, religion, negative perceptions, etc. . . . that's another spin on all this. 1
preraph Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Honestly, I think the reason the few men who like virgins like them is because they think it will make the woman feel like they are actually good in bed or that their size is normal since she wouldn't theoretically know any better. Which is why I think doing bjs and staying a virgin is a joke. Because that's more intimate than intercourse.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I was a virgin until 30. Age has nothing to do to how you feel about it. Sexually I felt more apt than ever... Just never dated. So when I did have my go around, I did not feel any more pleasure than any other time at it. The best pleasures are with the person you love, as it adds to the sensation. If it takes years to find the right person, it is well worth it IMO.
Assasda Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Guys as virgins matter more to women. Girls as virgins matter more to women. Sexual experience matter more to women. - all these are generalizations ofcourse Nothing wrong with being a virgin though
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