Giggle Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I've been way short for years. Making up for having no fun in my 20s, but I'd still have to divide by 3 to get close. 3.5. Gotta divide by that. Unless we start counting affairs across the phone lines..
writergal Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Wait...I have to do math? Some, but not that many. I knew I should have kept a notebook of all my sex partners, like Janeane Garofalo's character Vickie Miner in the movie Reality Bites did. 1
Redhead14 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 OKC asks this question: "Divide your age by 2. Have you had sex with at least that many people?" It's interesting, when I plug that question into my normal OKC search pattern, only 21 women answered "yes," about 70 answered "no," and hundreds didn't answer. My answer is "no." at my age, that would be 25 women. I'm five short Well, I'm 55, I've only had two intimate partners -- my ex husband of 30 years and my fiance (who passed away) of two years. I've had more than 1/2 my age in dates and potential partners. I am pretty close to adding a third intimate partner though
2.50 a gallon Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I'm in CarrieT's league. I would have gladly stopped at 50 with my Ex-fiancé, age 28. Add over a 100 to the ExW at 35, I stopped, but she didn't Another 100 after that when I to age 50 when I met the love of my life. Very few regrets, other than not having any kids. Now that I am retired, looking back those were shining times. 2
central Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I don't think the concept is valid, but whatever! The calculation appears to front-load the "goal" - 15 partners by 30 (not unusual these days, it seems), when you've been sexually active for perhaps 10-15 years, but estimates only another 15 in the next 30 years. I had very few when younger, and most of my partners have been within the last 5-7 years. I've exceeded the estimate.
Michelle ma Belle Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 A gentleman never asks and a lady never tells... 3
d0nnivain Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 I have enough partners to know what I'm doing & what I like but not so many that I question my own morals. Nobody -- especially not some public website (OKC or LS) -- is entitled to a more specific answer. The #s make people crazy & should never be shared. 2
Tayken Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 @OP....like you seriously expect the serial daters to admit this in public? To the ones that respond, be sure to multiple by 10 perhaps in order to get a close to the truth answer. Nobody wants to come across as the neighbourhood s1ut, and they are more likely to throw it back at you asking if that includes 1. one night stands (ONS) 2. couple dates hook ups that only involved BJs 3. FWBs 4. married period 5.etc As to "a lady never tells", yes you can say that again. However I know a lady when I see one
love1336x Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 No. I've not had sex with 12 people! Thank gosh... It's half that number though. Six.
fortyninethousand322 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 OKC asks this question: "Divide your age by 2. Have you had sex with at least that many people?" It's interesting, when I plug that question into my normal OKC search pattern, only 21 women answered "yes," about 70 answered "no," and hundreds didn't answer. My answer is "no." at my age, that would be 25 women. I'm five short If I divide my age by two that's 13. I'm pretty far below that. But only by 13... 2
CaliGuy Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Pre or Post "Christ"? Because I was in a band for 15 years before I found my faith....and prior to that, it wasn't very Christian.... (all apologies) 1
Author Kid_Charlemange Posted October 9, 2014 Author Posted October 9, 2014 asking if that includes 1. one night stands (ONS) - YES 2. couple dates hook ups that only involved BJs - NO 3. FWBs - YES 4. married period - YES 5.etc - NO I don't "expect" anything. I asked a question, people can choose to answer it or not. I find different perspectives interesting. Per your list: I've never had a ONS; I have had (indeed, still have) a FWB; I never cheated while married; I enjoy etc. as often as possible.
dj572 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Guess I better get busy I'm 40 and I've only had 3.
Candy_Pants Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 I stopped counting when I lived in Europe. 3
Million.to.1 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Clearly I'm a huge slut! My (estimated) number is well above half my age. But now that I have found the love of my life, I'll just need to wait it out for a few years and then I'll be back on track and won't be a slut anymore! yay! I would never answer that question on a dating site profile though. especially as a woman. People are just so judgmental from behind their little computer screens. 2
Cristo Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 The amount of sexual partners that I've had is one less than my age. Despite this, I would not date a woman that had more than half of my number and certainly not my number or higher.
Million.to.1 Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 The amount of sexual partners that I've had is one less than my age. Despite this, I would not date a woman that had more than half of my number and certainly not my number or higher. Most giant slut bag woman like myself don't like hypocritical men with double standards either so that works out well. 5
No Limit Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 18:2 = 9. So I'm 9 partners short. They don't know what they missed 2
braindamage Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Only had 1 partner ever @26 - this theory becomes ridiculous if you take into account successful LTRs.
Got it Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Bwahahaha Well having only slept with two people, I am WAY behind the curve here. I am okay with not hitting the mark. I am comfortable in my numbers. 1
Emilia Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Only had 1 partner ever @26 - this theory becomes ridiculous if you take into account successful LTRs. I think my number was 3 until I hit 31 because I was married for 9 years. Then it all went nuts in my 30s 3
ASG Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 If, by some miracle, the guy I'm seeing turns out to be the love of my life and I never have sex with anyone else, I'll still be above the half my age thing... unless I live a veryyy long life... 4
Candy_Pants Posted October 9, 2014 Posted October 9, 2014 Quality over quantity How do you think we found the quality!!? 5
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