collegestudent1 Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 There is this guy that I talked to on tinder and he seems like a very nice guy and he's good looking. We both go to the same college and we agreed to meet up there one day. I am 18 and he's 21. I told him that we should meet in the cafeteria at school and he said no because he doesn't like hanging out at school. He told me that I would go in his car and get some food. Should I agree with him and go in his car and we can go to lunch? Should I trust him?
d0nnivain Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I would inside on a meeting where you didn't have to get into his car 1st. He can bring take out if he really hates the food. Getting in a car with a stranger is a bad plan. 1
anne1707 Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 The fact that you are asking the question shows that you are quite rightly feeling uncomfortable at this suggestion. If he wants to meet for food then you meet him somewhere in public where you can get to the restaurant without needing to use his car. And if he doesn't like the above suggestion then it just supports your reasons for being concerned. 4
True Gent Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 No you shouldn't go in his car when you've never met him. If he won't be flexible and make some effort to meet you, then that says a lot about him really. If he was any sort of a decent man he'd understand the situation he's putting you into. 1
Joaquin Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 You would be a very naive and foolish person to get into a car with a man you don't know. Absolutely crazy to even be considering this. And NO, you shouldn't trust someone you've never met. You are clearly not ready to be let out of the house yet! 5
Gaeta Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 There is this guy that I talked to on tinder and he seems like a very nice guy and he's good looking. We both go to the same college and we agreed to meet up there one day. I am 18 and he's 21. I told him that we should meet in the cafeteria at school and he said no because he doesn't like hanging out at school. He told me that I would go in his car and get some food. Should I agree with him and go in his car and we can go to lunch? Should I trust him? How do you know he is going to the same college as you and not making that up? His refusal to meet in the cafeteria could be that he is not a student there. How do you know he's 21? other then what he told you? You never ever get in someone's car when you don't know him and let me add, you should stop all communication with a man offering you to get in his car when you have not met already. I would lose this guy fast if I were you. Being cute does not mean in anyway he's armless just look up Luka Magnotta. 2
Gloria25 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 OMG, Please, do not go into some guy's car. This also goes for meeting up with any guy - I don't care "if" he actually is from your college or even works at the same job you are at. NEVER put yourself alone with someone you don't and/or barely know. Always have first date(s) in the public, maybe even bring a friend to sit across from you until you're ok and met the guy, and/or let a close friend know you're going on a first date and keep them abreast of the evening - just in case something happens to you. Also, always watch your drink. NEVER let him buy you a drink. Take your drink to the restroom with you. I mean, I heard of this story where a lady's boss offered her a bottle water and even though the cap was still on, he had twisted it off, spiked it, then squeezed it back on. She got raped. Be careful out there!!!
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