guest Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 i just started seein this girl and we like eachother ALOT and i havnt seen her for awhile but we always talk on hte computer and fone and i can talk for a little bit but then it starts getting silent..i never have stuff to say..i dont know what to say..if anyone has ideas on what to talka bout..and remember we are both 15..so yea....thanks
SleepingLover Posted March 9, 2005 Posted March 9, 2005 Do you have any interests that you like? Hobbies? Etc... You can always talk about those but don't forget to ask her about hers as well. You can always talk about more mundane things too. She won't care much, it's your voice she wants to hear and she wants to get to know more about you. What are your dislikes and likes etc. You can always start a new subject with "Do you like (insert subject here)?" or "I can't stand (subject). What do you think about it?" . These are always good ways to get to know a little more about your new found friend and in turn she gets to know more about you as well. Get creative and think about what you two can discuss, you may even learn some new things which makes it all the more interesting and fun. It doesn't change much as you get older, the discussions just get different and sometimes they get so long you can't wait to get off the phone because your ear is hurting from the thing being pushed up against it so long heheh . Hope that helps.
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