DirtyHairy Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Hey, So I have been out of a short term relationship for a bit over a month and I feel like I should start talking to more girls are my university. Now I don't intend on asking everyone I meet out I've made a little bit of a choice to just take this whole relationship business one step at a time. I usually get attached fairly quick because I think about the future to fast but I am trying to make an effort to just take step 1 and not stress over everything else. Step 1 is meeting girls. Now I don't go to many parties because I am a senior and don't feel like going to first year parties lol I was wondering how you would meet women in class, at the library in the cafe etc? I just need a reason to talk to them because I don't want to just go up randomly and say "Hey my name is ____" you know? Any advice on meeting women and how to approach better and have a meaningful conversation? Coffee shop might work too!
Mirages Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 An idea: Get a part time job at the university getting quality surveys. Most univ's have student jobs that are administrative, whatever. You want to find a position where you get to interview students by random selection on topics such as: Satisfaction with housing, with safety, quality of food choices, parking options. If the position does not exist, you might talk someone into it, you'd be university staff, not some creeper student. This scenario would benefit your goal greatly.
d0nnivain Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Look around your classes. Do you see anybody who looks interesting? Try sitting closer to that person for a while. Before the next test, ask if that person would like to study with you. Develop a routine for walking to & from class. Ascertain whether you see the same people at the same time. If any of them look interesting start smiling & saying hi. After a while say hey I see you all the time, but I'd like to get to know you better. Wanna meet me at the food court / coffee shop / student union after class? Join a club or activity. Getting a campus job is a good idea. Sharing a table with somebody in the library may also work.
Author DirtyHairy Posted October 8, 2014 Author Posted October 8, 2014 Actually that job thing sounds awesome....to bad that doesn't exist at my university lol a job on campus somewhere would be a good idea though I will have to look around. As for meeting someone in class there are a few who have peaked my interested and have chatted up a few but the one I am most interested in is older than me by a few years and I am not sure of her position relationship wise (plus if I ask her out then doing our projects together would be awkward). Will have to try sitting with different people at the library and see if something happens. How would you talk to someone in the library tho? Any ideas?
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