Sweetescape910 Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 This guy I was seeing for a while ended things with me because he's depressed and he's at a ****ty place in his life. We really liked each other and were about to be in a relationship. He's a good guy. I understand that, and I let him do his own thing. After the "break up" I got a bit too emotional, and he got really annoyed and told me to stop texting him. After a few days he apologized for acting so insensitive. I haven't spoken to him in about two weeks until he texted me last night asking how I am. The conversation was okay, nothing personal that we talked about. I ended the conversation and said I'm going to sleep ttyl. He just says "Bye" which was really weird because he always says goodnight or something. Whatever, anyways, I have a dillema. Of course I want to talk to him, but I don't want to talk to him first EVER. I know since he talked to me first now the ball is in my court to talk to him, but I honestly don't feel comfortable doing that. And I'm scared I'll lose him or he'll never talk to me again. I just don't want to chase someone or talk to them when they broke it off with me and they're unsure. I want a man who knows what he wants and loves me. I want my "ex" to pursue me, however, I have a feeling he's probably thinking I should be the next one to talk first. What do I do?
mightycpa Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I'm scared I'll lose him or he'll never talk to me again I hate to say it, but it is true. You have lost him, and as soon as you realize it, it will be the first day that he'll never talk to you again. The faster that day comes, the faster you'll be over it. Let him play his game of chicken. When he blinks, don't come running back. Run for the hills. Don't look back. Read this: DON'T Fall For Breadcrumbs
Seraque Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 DON'T do anything. If he wants to pursue you again he won't be thinking that it's your turn. He will just try again. It's just breadcrumbs as they say. I got breadcrumbs a couple weeks ago, kept thinking about it/hanging onto it (replied once), and didn't hear a peep after that. Pretend like it never happened and go back to NC!!
Author Sweetescape910 Posted October 7, 2014 Author Posted October 7, 2014 So I shouldnt contact him? Im scared hell think the balls in my court and wait for me to talk to him.
Elle1975 Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 Did he say "I made a mistake. I want to give it another go". No? Then that's just a breadcrumb.
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