hellohello25 Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I met a woman at a social function and we hit it off very well. We've been on two dates since and I know I want to get serious with her. She then told me about her Meetup account which was cool because I'm active with it too. Looking through her account after parting, I noticed she was apart of this 30s+ group which blew me away because I had seriously assumed that she was younger than I was (I'm 25). None of the other ones she was one indicated an age though. I realize we're both old enough where age really doesn't 'matter' but I'd be damned if I wasn't super curious. Is there any 'polite' way of bringing this up? I really don't want to snoop around to find it; would rather just let it die and hope I find it one day.
lillyz Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I met a woman at a social function and we hit it off very well. We've been on two dates since and I know I want to get serious with her. She then told me about her Meetup account which was cool because I'm active with it too. Looking through her account after parting, I noticed she was apart of this 30s+ group which blew me away because I had seriously assumed that she was younger than I was (I'm 25). None of the other ones she was one indicated an age though. I realize we're both old enough where age really doesn't 'matter' but I'd be damned if I wasn't super curious. Is there any 'polite' way of bringing this up? I really don't want to snoop around to find it; would rather just let it die and hope I find it one day. "How old are you by the way?" Honestly. If you're casual about it, just straight up ask her.
David87 Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 You said you like her and you want to get serious with her, why do you need to know her age? Go on more dates and she will tell you eventually. If you'll ask now you'll spoil everything.
mightycpa Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Here are some old tried and true methods: How old are you? When did you graduate from college (high school)? Who was the President when you were born? Let me see the picture on your driver's license. Maybe she likes the older crowd. You never know.
gaius Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 "I bet I can guess how old you are." "Haha better be careful!" "25" "Aww that's sweet but I'm really 30 whatever" "Awesome. I always had a thing for women a bit older."
Assasda Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Just tell her. "I say you were in some 30+ goups. You into older dudes?" Ofcourse you have to have a fun playful nature. Playfulness always gets you to where you want to go 1
lillyz Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Just tell her. "I say you were in some 30+ goups. You into older dudes?" Ofcourse you have to have a fun playful nature. Playfulness always gets you to where you want to go ^ Yep. This exactly. A fun approach. As long as you keep it playful and light, and not making her age a big deal, there's nothing wrong with asking her, especially while complimenting her looks.
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