live23643926 Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Hi, I am a 22 year old girl who is "crushing" on an 18 year old senior in high school (2015). I recently (5 months) got out of a 4 1/2 year relationship with my high school sweetheart who left me for a girl (19) he had been cheating on me with for 3 years, which I did not know about until we broke up. They have been official since 3 weeks after our break up, Anyways, I have known who this boy is thru sports, he is also my best friend of 17 years little brothers friend. Her brother is also a senior. And I played sports with his aunt, who graduated a year before me (2009). But I don't know if he knows who I am... I want to initiate contact but I don't want to seem too eager or weird. I don't know if the age difference is acceptable on my end. I don't really know where to begin, or if not to. I would also like to know if it is acceptable to ask him to be my date to my best friend's wedding in less than a month... please no judgement.
Assasda Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Just wal up to him and say something creepy like "I love highschoolers" hahaha
Gloria25 Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Well, 22 and 18 isn't that weird or big a difference if you ask me... 1
still_an_Angel Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Age difference shouldn't be a problem if the feelings are genuine. Ignore those who have a lot to say, the important thing is whatever is between you and him.
Gloria25 Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Age difference shouldn't be a problem if the feelings are genuine. Ignore those who have a lot to say, the important thing is whatever is between you and him. I'm not to sure about that...big gaps and gaps at certain points in life, IMO, do indeed affect the RL. Like a person in their 20's and the other in 30's. The person in their 20's probably just graduated high school, is looking at college and needs to "grow" into figuring out who they are and what they want out of life. The person in their 30's is like "been there done that"...
gaius Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Just find a way to talk to him. Laugh at his jokes, stroke his ego. If he has a pair of testicles he'll take care of the rest.
Author live23643926 Posted October 7, 2014 Author Posted October 7, 2014 haha i dont want to look like a creep... i need to find a good way to start conversation.. his mom does like my pictures on facebook though...lol
gaius Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Add him on facebook. Pick an interest of his he has listed and pretend you need help with it. "Oh I saw you like/are into blah blah blah and I'm doing that but I'm bad at it." Let him talk and be the man and take it from there.
d0nnivain Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 The age difference is not so bad. The life experience difference may be insurmountable right now. You can't take him to a bar with you in the US & I doubt that you want to be his homecoming or prom date so where does that leave you?
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