Guys: how often do YOU get asked out?

[JuneJulySeptember]

I've been asked out quite a few times and I'm no GQ model. I don't think it's a looks thing TBH.

 

So ... you're saying my personality sucks? As does it for over 50% of men who responded.Lol.

 

In all honesty, I'm kidding.

 

I'm not going to beat myself up over it because I've done it for so many years And it's such a brutal process.

 

All I can do is be the best person I can be and see who likes me.

 

I'm happy for you though. You seem like a good guy.

 

Every now and then when I hear stories of a 14 year old getting hit on, I just kind of wish I had that. I don't think you can dock me for that.

Edited October 13, 2014 by JuneJulySeptember

[Scrab22]

Never.

 

Today's reality creates great problems between the genders.

Generalizing - women have because cowards, arrogant, high-standard and less rational.

It also goes for men, though. But since men are always the ones to attempt on asking, and most reasons for women is arrogance and impatience for instance (in my opinion it eventually comes for fear), men are losing, but undeservedly.

[AD1980]

Never..I've gotten signs only once but apparently I misread it because the girl wasn't attracted to me

[Trane]

The odd time it happens. Mostly by women 10, 15 or 20 years older than me.

 

Most women are too intimidated by my presence so I've been told OR they aren't attracted to my short stature.

[boilingpoint]

The odd time it happens. Mostly by women 10, 15 or 20 years older than me.

 

Most women are too intimidated by my presence so I've been told OR they aren't attracted to my short stature.

 

Yeah older women are generally more confident. I love older women.

 

I genuinely believe girls should ask out guys more often. It would make the whole dating process 100% better for everyone. Almost ALL girls don't even try asking out a guy they like! It's bull**** to just leave it to guys to do it.

 

There's no excuse for not doing it - girls saying that "Ohhh, if I do, then he'll lose interest... and if he doesn't ask me he's not interested anyway" don't know what they're talking about.

 

They generally just don't want to be faced with the difficulties of actively asking people out on dates, of which there are many, therefore it takes character.

[Moe'sTavern]

I've never been asked out. I'm also not holding my breath that it'll happen any time soon.

[Trane]

Yeah older women are generally more confident. I love older women.

 

I genuinely believe girls should ask out guys more often. It would make the whole dating process 100% better for everyone. Almost ALL girls don't even try asking out a guy they like! It's bull**** to just leave it to guys to do it.

 

There's no excuse for not doing it - girls saying that "Ohhh, if I do, then he'll lose interest... and if he doesn't ask me he's not interested anyway" don't know what they're talking about.

 

They generally just don't want to be faced with the difficulties of actively asking people out on dates, of which there are many, therefore it takes character.

 

Women have a much greater fear of rejection and hold onto the false, slutty/easy belief system attributed to girls who approach men first.

 

The way I see it, older women have nothing to lose, know exactly what they want and are usually well past the point of caring whether guys feel that she's slutty or easy for being first.

Youngins care about this stuff the most which is why some women are never first to approach a guy until they are well into menopause or retirement age. Youngins are more preoccupied with how many times they get asked out by guys and how many times they can reject the same.

 

Loneliness and carnal cravings have a way of making some women go after the wood with reckless abandon.