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^ Haha.

 

 

 

I agree with the other women in this thread: intelligence, confidence (I personally like guys with a quiet confidence), sense of humor. Probably in that order...

 

Also a guy who beats to his own drum... has his own vision... that is massively attractive to me.

 

And, a little ruggedness. Can't resist it. ;-)

 

Yes! Love men who are passionate about something and not afraid to stand out or be cast out as a result. Having conviction and staying true to his beliefs rather than follow a crowd like a predictable drone. Love a man who stands for something particularly when it's selfless.

 

Super sexy :)

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Well of course, lets NOT forget this is a two way street i.e. that we can in fact bring these qualities that we are expecting a potential partner to have. Paying lip service online and then doing something else is reality, are two different things.

 

You wouldn't want to be in a relationship where you are the only one doing all the heavy lifting like using your brains, doing all the driving, bringing home more earnings etc

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I usually have a very aggressive and somewhat manic energy, but once in a great while I run across a girl who is rather adept at calming me down and bringing me to peace. It's usually those women that I end up willing to go to the end of the earth for. I don't feel somethings missing when I'm not with one, but it's like going around with one eye shut all the time. You just operate on a whole other level when they're both open.

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Here's what I wrote about five years ago, while in the middle of my divorce:

 

Male 50

 

In no particular order...

 

1. Expressive and open eyes

 

2. Animated lips

 

3. Luxuriant hair

 

 

Today, I'm somewhat chagrined to write I've got nothin'. A thought comes to mind and then 'nope, that's not it', and another, and same, and on it goes. That's how life goes sometimes.

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I think stability is very sexy

 

true courage

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bringing home more earnings etc

 

I read this as "bringing home more earrings" and I was all... "Yes, please!" :)

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If you mean physical quality, then the eyes have it. Some of the sexiest women I know have all different size bodies. Some have smaller or larger boobs or hips.

 

But the eyes is what does it for me. And by that I mean expressive eyes which are big and literally appear as a window to the soul. The girl at the pharmacy has them and she is slim and petite. Yet her eyes "speak" to me every time I see her. They twinkle with excitement and say hello before her mouth does. The lady at the grocery store behind the register has the same ability. Her friendly eyes can make my day. Yet she is tall and well, less petite. And the list goes on.... While they are not any woman I date or will date, they are great examples of how the eyes can be overwhelmingly attractive and sexy.

 

The women I dated all had eyes that gave me reason to believe that they might be fun.

 

Yes, my wife has a very beautiful pair. :love: Hers are probably the most expressive of any I have seen. Sometimes when she talks I simply stare at them. They can express love and laughter. They twinkle with mischief. They turn to liquid when sad. They overflow with desire when she really is turned on. And never before have I seen eyes that could flash with such fire when angry! :eek:

 

If you mean emotional/mental/personable quality, then it is an allure of mystery and the twinkle of mischief and the ability to tease and bring humor to any situation. Now combine that with the eyes which will show the humor and fun and the desire...

 

Well, now I am raring to go! :laugh:

 

Oh, and yes, my wife has that quality too. :love:

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I read this as "bringing home more earrings" and I was all... "Yes, please!" :)

 

Tis what happens when scan read :D Funny you should bring this though, and how it relates to the opposite sex....one of the things am willing to admit online is that, I like earrings (not studs) on women and the more danglier they are the better. There I said it...both my ears are pierced, but the nature of my occupation doesn't allow me to wear studs

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Smell. Everyone has that unique whiff, that either puts her there or not. She can have the body and a face of a goddess but if she does not smell right then.......Everyone has this. (Surely)

 

Don't panic I too am a closet arm pit sniffer... I can't help it...

 

I haven't got a particular favourite but confidence is well near the top, eyes that smile, someone who is fun and secure in themselves, looks after themselves... I want to respect the person I am with.

 

I also want them to feel secure enough to let be be and get on with all the bits and bobs I do, its not unusual for me to find injured animals and patch them up and I am often disappearing off to do some form of charitable thing or other. If they join in even better. This usually means getting mucky so not too clean cut.

 

I love laughter lines and wrinkles.

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Hmmmm . . . eyes are a big one, and I am a sucker for a good pair of shoulders.

 

But has to be sense of humor/laugh. That is probably my favorite thing about my husband. He has such an infectious laugh. It always makes me smile/turns me on. :love:

 

Physically, with my husband it is his eyes and his body shape. He has broad shoulders, and is quite leggy. So just great proportions. :)

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If you mean physical quality, then the eyes have it. Some of the sexiest women I know have all different size bodies. Some have smaller or larger boobs or hips.

 

But the eyes is what does it for me. And by that I mean expressive eyes which are big and literally appear as a window to the soul. The girl at the pharmacy has them and she is slim and petite. Yet her eyes "speak" to me every time I see her. They twinkle with excitement and say hello before her mouth does. The lady at the grocery store behind the register has the same ability. Her friendly eyes can make my day. Yet she is tall and well, less petite. And the list goes on.... While they are not any woman I date or will date, they are great examples of how the eyes can be overwhelmingly attractive and sexy.

 

The women I dated all had eyes that gave me reason to believe that they might be fun.

 

Yes, my wife has a very beautiful pair. :love: Hers are probably the most expressive of any I have seen. Sometimes when she talks I simply stare at them. They can express love and laughter. They twinkle with mischief. They turn to liquid when sad. They overflow with desire when she really is turned on. And never before have I seen eyes that could flash with such fire when angry! :eek:

 

If you mean emotional/mental/personable quality, then it is an allure of mystery and the twinkle of mischief and the ability to tease and bring humor to any situation. Now combine that with the eyes which will show the humor and fun and the desire...

 

Well, now I am raring to go! :laugh:

 

Oh, and yes, my wife has that quality too. :love:

 

My husband says this about mine. :laugh: Says they will flash fire and the blue is just piercing.

 

He has dubbed this "releasing the Kraken"

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