tp786 Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 (edited) Me Ex dumped me just over 1 month ago , like other people i made all the mistakes like reasoning , pleading , crying , looking for pity -all of it - that was a while ago and for the past while I've just not stopped being able to think of her . After 1 week nc she asked if i was ok and it was all good until a few days later where i started mistaking again , further down the line i was almost forced to speak to her and as a result ( a lot was her fault to be honest for this part ) as i loved this person i was talking to i couldn't control my emotions i said horrible things to her and i was terrible . that has all stopped and we stopped speaking on good terms . By this point she already mentioned she doesn't love me anymore etc . Anyway so i carried on not speaking to her then after not too long without speaking she texted me saying if i wanted a dress back we gave to her - from that we had a FRIENDLY but small conversation ( which is good i guess but really horrible for me as i want her back ) so that one was her contacting me , Next i contacted her and started with a nice memory we have introduced by some bs story i made up From that we talked a bit longer but only really like friends and i even put an x at the end of the convo and she replied with an x too which is good ( but im sure she only does that with friends ) a day later ( today ) i texted her as i know she is finding work hard wishing her look and had a longer convo from that but it wasn't really looking promising in my eyes for the future. I tried putting xx but she replied with a x , i said i few nice things but she would reply - thank you x or aw thanks x which is very FRIENDLY . So my question is assuming you're answering me to help me get her back is what do you think she may feel towards me ? what shall i do to get her more interested and to even meet up casually to get us closer again ? HOW DO I DO IT ALL ( answer in detail guys ) Have i got a good chance ? am i stuck in the friend zone ? or can i re attract her like i once did and if so how ? P.s the breakup was my fault mostly and I KNOW WHAT I DID WRONG towards the end i simply wasn't treating her good enough but now I KNOW I CAN helppppppppp ???!!! :'( i feel pain all day an don't want to leave it too late - as she replies friendly like can i move things forward and does it mean she just wants friends ?( i wont be her friend I'm not silly ) help would be great ! Edited October 7, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
preraph Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 She doesn't love you or want to be with you at all. She just feels bad you're hurt and wishes you weren't hurting and is trying to show she wishes you weren't hurting, but that doesn't mean she ever will want you back because she won't. You'd be best off going no contact and moving on.
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