xxJuliexx Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I don't have a Facebook anymore, but of course my mother posted a pic of me and was saying Happy birthday, and how proud she is of me that I am in Biology, etc etc. Nothing but bragging basically So this guy I like is on her friends list and he is always the one saying "Happy Birthday" to someone, well he didn't call or text me saying Happy Birthday. He is on Facebook all the time and all day. He has been distant with me lately, he has been acting weird with me. Kinda has a tone like the other guy I complained about in my previous post he is kinda like that. Well he purposely put a like up to my mom's post that she posted 2 days ago, but he put a like up to that particular post hours after my birthday post. I think he was trying to make a point. What are the possible reasons he is doing this? Why is he trying to hurt me? It's like he's mad at me for no reason! I have no idea what I did. Does it seems like he's playing games? Tell me what you think, thank you!
Author xxJuliexx Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 I forgot to say that I did call up my friend Brittney a week ago, and she is friends and is close with my crush. I asked her to meet me at this club because I was there with a guy and he was my date, she asked if me and him were in a relationship and I ignored the question because I was kinda tipsy, and I said to her "I am here with my boy, come down to Club Sky" So it probably seemed like I meant my boyfriend bu really he was just a friend I went out with, and I don't know if she told my crush that, because she is really close to him and friends with him. Brittney is not one either to keep secrets so I highly doubt she didn't mention to anyone that I called her up wanting her to come down, she's a gossip. So I don't know if that has anything to do with it? Maybe she told him I had a boyfriend, when really I didn't mean it that way, but I don't know just adding in some information that might help my confusion.
Beautiful Kisses Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Don't let him not saying happy birthday to you overshadowed all the other Ppl who love and care about you that did say happy birthday. Next time he tries to talk or text you ask him about it. 2
Author xxJuliexx Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 Don't let him not saying happy birthday to you overshadowed all the other Ppl who love and care about you that did say happy birthday. Next time he tries to talk or text you ask him about it. I know You're right. I am not letting him overshadow I guess I was expecting it because I liked him and he is one to not forget birthdays. So I am disappointed and upset about it. I don't think I will ask him though because he won't give me an honest answer about it so I would rather complain about it on here lol. Thanks.
d0nnivain Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Julie This crush is not the other guy all your posts are about is he? Who knows why he didn't say Happy Birthday to you. Maybe he just forgot. Clicking like on FB doesn't exactly burn info into one's brain. What is it with your parents & guys you like or who like you? 1
Fondue Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Just because he is friends with your MOM doesn't mean he reads her updates. Or filters her out? Or maybe just scrolls over her and doesn't care. Or is that unavoidable? I really don't know. I quit facebook long ago.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 How do you know all of this if you're not on Facebook anymore? 1
slizl Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 You are looking at your mom's posts to see who likes her posts and when they like them??? Do yourself a favor and delete your account... 1
dispatch3d Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Well unsurprisingly I have mostly criticism for you rather than the guy. So you don't have facebook and a guy you like doesn't wish you happy birthday. Your mom apparently posts a happy birthday message on her account and he doesn't wish you a happy birthday on it, but from the other crap you posted it sounds like he liked the post. So just throwing it out there, but maybe he didn't wish you happy birthday on facebook because you don't have facebook. That tends to be the type of thing that would deter someone from doing that. And if I'm right in reading the other stupid crap you wrote about him liking the post, you didn't take the like as a happy birthday. Instead there's like 3 sentences on stuff I don't understand. Something on him purposefully making you mad, he's playing games. I don't know I think you just polled your girlfriends about stuff guys do that they don't like and then typed that in there. So whatever so far no harm no fowl, all that's happened is some guy didn't wish you happy birthday on facebook when you don't have facebook. But thennnn.... You like another guy, apparently, but apparently not as much. How your crush is to figure this out I don't know. Magical powers probably. Anyhow you text a mutual friend that you are at a bar with a guy you like, and now this may obviously get back to him. Here the problem is your friend is a gossip. Throwing it out there, the problem might be that you aren't even bothering to pursue just him, and that's the reason you are in the situation to begin with. Anyhow your issues are he doesn't wish you happy facebook and he might know that you like another guy. I would just continue as if these things didn't happen, and like ask him out, or something along those lines.
Author xxJuliexx Posted October 7, 2014 Author Posted October 7, 2014 I'm not going to go one by one, but here I will sum it all up. First off How do I know? Because my mom showed me and told me. That's how I know about it. Also it's a different guy, not the one from my last post, I still haven't spoke to that jerk. Someone said something along the lines of "Maybe he didn't put a like because it's not your Facebook and he moves past your mom's posts" Yeah, but he didn't call or text me and that is what I am most upset about. If he didn't know it was my birthday, but then saw that FB post, and texted or called me then I would have understood, because a lot of people did that. A lot of people that are on my mom's list didn't know it was my birthday and they sent me a text or called to say "Happy Birthday" and that was very nice of them, but yes my crush didn't when he is usually the first one to say it, and he PURPOSELY put a like up to my mom's post that was from 2 days ago. When he would have to scroll on her page a lot to see the post, and she already posted the birthday post, and that's at the top of the page, so don't tell he didn't see it. And he did it on purpose. I am just summing this all up, because you all seem to have it wrong. Thanks.
Fondue Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Comes to forum for advice. Receives advice. "NO, YOU'RE ALL WRONG!" P.S. lulz@FB drama.
Keenly Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 You need to releax. You're making a huge deal over literally nothing. If you're freaking out over some one who owes you nothing not wishing your mom a happy birthday on your behalf then I wonder what else you will freak out about. 1
CharlieFox Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 It was all a part of his plan. He didn't wish you "Happy Birthday" deliberately, because he knew it will upset you and create even more drama... Dun-dun-DUUUUN!!!
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