Is it ok to go on a date with one guy while talking to another??

[MapleWish]

Let me elaborate, lately I've been hanging out with a guy who is going through a divorce but has yet to receive the actual divorce papers. (I know, one of those situations) he and His wife were separated for 10 months and two weeks ago she called for the divorce and signed her papers already, so she's still his wife but the divorce is imminent. Lately he's been watching movies with me and hanging out but we aren't doing anything more, I don't want to and neither does he, but he's still confused about the whole divorce thing. He says he likes me but still loves his wife, yet he'll cuddle with me during movies. Anyways, a different crush from months ago messaged me on fb yesterday asking for a movie date. I was actually shocked cause my crush on him was from summer time and our mutual friend said I wasn't this guy's type cause I don't hunt or go camping but yea he asked me on a movie date and I accepted cause basically even though I'm talking to this other guy I see it as, he's still married. We like each other but I've no attachment to him cause he's not on the market yet. Is it ok to go on this movie date then??? Don't focus on the talking to the married man part I'm not concerned about that, I've had many talks with this guy about his situation

[sdrawkcaB ssA]

I see it as equal rights... men will see other girls on dates. So as long as you're not some guys GF, what you do in dating is what you feel comfortable with.

 

For me I could not date more than one, as I am lousy with numbers and names. I can just imagine calling Jessica and talking to her like I called Sue. WTF! HA!!!

[Beautiful Kisses]

I would say go on the date, at least he's asking you out on a date it shows he likes you enough to take you out instead of just SAYING it like the guy I'm dealing with. Go out and enjoy yourself. See what happens

[CaliGypsy]

guy 1.not yet divorced, AND still in love with his wife. Has not actually asked you out right? I'm assuming you aren't having sex with him.

 

 

guy 2. Is single, has expressed interest, and has asked you out on a proper date.

 

 

I say, yes to #2. It sounds like the first guy still has a lot to process and sort out. It's not the separation so much, as it's that he's still in love with his wife. Potential for drama there.

[me85]

Yes, go on that date. You're not with the guy who's still married. Aaaand he said he still loves his wife...