tpham18nm Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 This girl became interested in me and gave me her number. From there on we started talking. I told her that I was going to a movie with my friends and asked if she wanted to join. My friend is a goofy guy, when I introduced her to my friend he had popcorn on his hands so he was gonna shake her hand but made a fist to pound it instead. That's just how he is! She said that was awkward so she didn't pound it. I know, it sounds goofy. But I was like what??? Why did she do that? Than she ignored his wife and didn't say hi? His wife had to reach over and introduce herself. I'm not sure If this girl is just shy or rude in a way. She's really nice towards me though. It was awkward when we all said by. She didn't say "nice to meet you!" "It was fun!" "Thanks for inviting me!". None of that. Do you all think thats rude? Or is it just me over thinking everything?
kjohn Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 You could be over thinking everything, or maybe she thought it was rude of you to not introduce her to your friend's wife. If your friend's wife had to introduce herself, it means that you did not introduce them to each other. To me, that is awkward and rude of you. If you still like the girl, give it another chance, but don't put her on the spot and ask her about her behavior on this day. Let it go and just see how her personality unfolds as you get to know her better. 1
Author tpham18nm Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 You could be over thinking everything, or maybe she thought it was rude of you to not introduce her to your friend's wife. If your friend's wife had to introduce herself, it means that you did not introduce them to each other. To me, that is awkward and rude of you. If you still like the girl, give it another chance, but don't put her on the spot and ask her about her behavior on this day. Let it go and just see how her personality unfolds as you get to know her better. True, maybe I could of did a better job introducing everyone. I did give her their names though. I told her, this is so and so. But they were sitting down in the theater so it wasn't face to face. I might just be over thinking stuff.
Ronni_W Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I'm not sure If this girl is just shy or rude in a way. You will be able to make a more-informed assessment once you get to know her a little better. But...do not rule out that she may be shy AND rude; they're not mutually exclusive.
sdrawkcaB ssA Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 This girl became interested in me and gave me her number. From there on we started talking. I told her that I was going to a movie with my friends and asked if she wanted to join. My friend is a goofy guy, when I introduced her to my friend he had popcorn on his hands so he was gonna shake her hand but made a fist to pound it instead. That's just how he is! She said that was awkward so she didn't pound it. I know, it sounds goofy. But I was like what??? Why did she do that? Than she ignored his wife and didn't say hi? His wife had to reach over and introduce herself. I'm not sure If this girl is just shy or rude in a way. She's really nice towards me though. It was awkward when we all said by. She didn't say "nice to meet you!" "It was fun!" "Thanks for inviting me!". None of that. Do you all think thats rude? Or is it just me over thinking everything? I would think to ask a girl to pound it with your friend is a bit awkward. She probably felt that way in front of your friends mate. OH!!! You mean hand pounding. Geesh! Never mind.
Gloria25 Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 While the whole "fist bumping" thing was awkward, there's no reason for her to react to the wife like that... And, coming from a "shy" person myself...it does take a lot for me to come out of my shell at times, but I don't use my shyness as an excuse to be rude to people. One of my sibling's ex-wife was like that...Every time we came to visit, she just stayed in her room. The last time we visited for Thanksgiving, we cooked a turkey dinner and even made sure she got a nice, big plate of food (she had to work on the holiday) and she didn't even come out of her room to thank us, wish us a safe ride home, ask us how our visit went - nothing (not even a call, text, Facebook post afterwards).
LoneIsland Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Sounds like she's lacking social experience. I'd suggest not thrusting her up to strangers. She maybe quite nice once she knows someone.
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