unagedtiger Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I was talking to a lady friend about etiquette after dates. She said she liked one time where a guy texted on the night date occurred to make sure she got home alright. And a follow-up call the next day for future stuffs, etc. Should I do this? Is this recommended assuming a lady feels a spark? But if there were no spark, the lady would prefer the guy to disappear? What is this?
Gaeta Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Whether a man ask me or not to confirm my arrival, will in no way change the opinion I have of him from our date. By the time I leave our date I have already decided if I like you or not, so you asking won't change that. 2
Author unagedtiger Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 Whether a man ask me or not to confirm my arrival, will in no way change the opinion I have of him from our date. By the time I leave our date I have already decided if I like you or not, so you asking won't change that. would you say the same about calling the next day? if you liked the guy and enjoyed the date, it doesn't matter whether he called or not?
Hesjustnotthatin2u Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I definitely appreciate when a guy texts me either that night or the following day to just say he had a nice time. 1
Author unagedtiger Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 I definitely appreciate when a guy texts me either that night or the following day to just say he had a nice time. would you like/mind a call the next day as well?
ComingInHot Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I was talking to a lady friend about etiquette after dates. She said she liked one time where a guy texted on the night date occurred to make sure she got home alright. And a follow-up call the next day for future stuffs, etc. Should I do this? Is this recommended assuming a lady feels a spark? But if there were no spark, the lady would prefer the guy to disappear? What is this? Just happened and I was so grateful for the call the next day. I didn't have to wonder or guess or start with any self doubting and neither did he* If you genuinely like her and she related the same to you, give her a call. Save the guessing games for Christmas and wrapped gifts
Author unagedtiger Posted October 6, 2014 Author Posted October 6, 2014 Just happened and I was so grateful for the call the next day. I didn't have to wonder or guess or start with any self doubting and neither did he* If you genuinely like her and she related the same to you, give her a call. Save the guessing games for Christmas and wrapped gifts "save the guessing games for Christmas" haha... you're so funny. God bless you! Yea I figured I should only be with someone who is game-free. 1
Assasda Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I'd only call to make sure she got home OK, if she was sweet, whether or not I'd like to see her again. As for calling the next day, I'd only do that if I have plans
Diezel Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Every woman is going to respond to this question differently. How about trying this instead: Do whatever the hell you feel like doing. Rinse and repeat til you find a comfort zone. 1
Lernaean_Hydra Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 I was talking to a lady friend about etiquette after dates. She said she liked one time where a guy texted on the night date occurred to make sure she got home alright. And a follow-up call the next day for future stuffs, etc. Should I do this? Is this recommended assuming a lady feels a spark? But if there were no spark, the lady would prefer the guy to disappear? What is this? I don't mind a follow-up text after the date so long as it's confined to 1) making sure I got home ok or 2) saying they had a nice time. I actually don't like hearing from the guy the next day simply becaause it feels clingy and overeager. After a first date I need time to process things. A good day or two in between gives me time to decompress and assess whether I might actually like the guy or am still riding the high of a successful date. A bit unorthodox I'm sure, but it works for me. Plus, I kind of like not knowing exactly where things stand immediately afterward because then I have to think for myself and my opinions aren't swayed by the fact that he's verbally made it clear how he feels about me. I went on a first date a while back and the dude called me as I was on the way home. I lived literally fifteen minutes away from the venue. We actually ended up talking for a good half an hour or so and I wasn't really wigged out until I had time to think about it. He came off as very clingy and overeager.... Guess what he turned out to be? If you guessed clingy and overeager, you'd be correct. So yeah, don't do that.
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