saz123 Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 Hi everyone. Soooooo where do I start. My boyfriend often comes to my house and usually comes and chills with me in my room in the evenings and we watch TV/films and obviously... Have sex. He loves coming round and just cuddling with me whilst watching a film or just chatting with me about how work was or what we've been up to that day. Standard couple stuff. We've been together for nearly 2 years now and only recently (1 night per week) my family tend to walk about a lot around the house on Saturday nights. Like going into rooms next to mine and shutting doors loudly and general just walking around the house. My boyfriend is TERRIFIED of someone coming into my room on this night - usually other nights my fam are sleeping so he isn't bothered. But as he is terrified of someone coming in, he can't "get it up". His willy just won't work. No matter what I do it won't work! Which makes me sad and feel like it's my fault when he just says it's not my fault as he is just nervous. He gets pretty agitated about it too. He says "it's not going to ****ing work so don't bother" and then he just pulls me in and hugs me. Guys out there - has this happened to you? Have you any advice? My boyfriend seems annoyed about it too I guess it's just annoying and maybe embarrassing for him???? He is perfectly fine other nights but when he's scared then nothing will happen.
LoneIsland Posted October 5, 2014 Posted October 5, 2014 With your family walking up and down, up and down, it's going to scare any guy witless. On such occasions, go somewhere else, his place, the car, the beach, whatever. 2
lyndaaxo Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 Obviously I don't have first-hand experience, being female and all... But it sounds like he is just genuinely scared someone will walk in halfway through and make things VERY awkward for him (and probably you). Do the above idea and try some other location! 1
BetrayedH Posted October 6, 2014 Posted October 6, 2014 As a man, that would certainly give me enough anxiety to kill a boner. Heck, sometimes just the distraction of having to stop the action to put it in is enough to lose an erection. If every minute was spent waiting for someone to walk in and see me screwing their daughter, yeah, no suprise it's enough of a distraction to lose it. As the others have said, find somewhere to go.
CaliGuy Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 Back in the day when I was not such a good guy, having sex where you COULD get caught was 1/2 the fun......
tpham18nm Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I use to have sex with parents in the other room or in the hall way. It didn't really bother me. Guess I'm just like that. I only malfunctioned once. Lol! It was the first time with this girl. We were on top of a little hill peaking over the city. It was dark and there were people outside my car that pulled up. Got me nervous. That girl didn't care though... She was crazy. I thought it was funny 1
CaliGuy Posted October 7, 2014 Posted October 7, 2014 I use to have sex with parents in the other room or in the hall way. It didn't really bother me. Guess I'm just like that. I only malfunctioned once. Lol! It was the first time with this girl. We were on top of a little hill peaking over the city. It was dark and there were people outside my car that pulled up. Got me nervous. That girl didn't care though... She was crazy. I thought it was funny The fact you MIGHT get caught is 1/2 the fun!
Tayken Posted October 8, 2014 Posted October 8, 2014 It was dark and there were people outside my car that pulled up. Got me nervous. That girl didn't care though... She was crazy. I thought it was funny This sounds like a scene from the spike lee directed movie....'The Summer of Sam
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